your methods
tell me them

10/21/2009 7:42:12 PM

we get it.

you like it in the butt

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[Edited on October 21, 2009 at 7:42 PM. Reason : don't see me talking about how hot redheads are...]

10/21/2009 7:42:37 PM

drink heavily

10/21/2009 7:42:43 PM

normally I tie their hands and feet to the bed posts, then slowly climb on top.

[Edited on October 21, 2009 at 7:50 PM. Reason : n]

10/21/2009 7:42:45 PM

drink heavily

10/21/2009 7:43:27 PM

kill 'em, hide the body under the floor.
yeah.

10/21/2009 7:43:39 PM

drink heavily has been my solution as of late

but i was looking for something a bit more permanent

10/21/2009 7:43:51 PM

Quote :

"normally I tie their hands and feet to the bed posts, the slowly climb on top."

this made me laugh a lot

10/21/2009 7:44:09 PM

date a woman

problem solved

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10/21/2009 7:44:19 PM

get into a huge fight with them on tww.

10/21/2009 7:44:31 PM

Quote :

"don't see me talking about how hot redheads are..."

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10/21/2009 7:44:37 PM

eat a lot?

10/21/2009 7:44:41 PM

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"date a woman"

i couldn't ever date a woman

fucking is a different story however

Quote :

"eat a lot?"

nah, food doesn't really do anything for me

10/21/2009 7:45:11 PM

on the real, when i'm feeling down i like to take a big dump

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10/21/2009 7:45:12 PM

[khporkwal]

10/21/2009 7:45:22 PM

Quote :

"drink heavily has been my solution as of late but i was looking for something a bit more permanent"

if you do it right then it can be permanent

10/21/2009 7:45:36 PM

I drank heavily and ended up in the hospital >.>

I would say preoccupy yourself with a new hobby?

10/21/2009 7:46:19 PM

that's not the type of permanent i was thinking of :beatup

new hobby could work... last time i did this, i ended up staying at work for ridiculous amounts of time... that was NOT a good idea, haha

10/21/2009 7:46:28 PM

lol

i don't know luckily i've never really had to get over anyone

10/21/2009 7:46:58 PM

skanks, tons of em, lots and lots of skanks

and hang out with friends

10/21/2009 7:48:20 PM

yea new hobby sounds good

and exercise

the last time i broke up with someone i lost a lot of weight because i'd exercise cause i was mad at them

10/21/2009 7:49:05 PM

slowly and painfully.

10/21/2009 7:49:29 PM

watch looney toons

Foghorn Leghorn makes it all go away

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10/21/2009 7:49:57 PM

It just takes time....then eventually you'll enjoy being single....then about that time when you're ready to get into another relationship someone else will come along out of nowhere.

10/21/2009 7:51:08 PM

ooh exercise works

i'm always up for running more

Quote :

"then eventually you'll enjoy being single"

but i've never enjoyed being single

10/21/2009 7:51:32 PM

Quote :

"slowly and painfully."

there's no cure but time
take it day by day, indulge in your passions, hang with your friends, talk when you need to talk, and be sad when you need to be sad

10/21/2009 7:54:32 PM

What do you mean "you people"?

10/21/2009 7:56:47 PM

Quote :

"skanks, tons of em, lots and lots of skanks"

10/21/2009 7:57:27 PM

^^^winner



but to be honest, there's nothing we can tell you to help you to cope. There's nothing that will make it better other than time. You won't forget it, but you'll learn to live peacefully with it. And you'll have good days and bad days along the way.

I really wish there was something more to it than that.

also... there's a forum for people going through what you're going through. i'll send you the link via pm.

[Edited on October 21, 2009 at 7:58 PM. Reason : .]

10/21/2009 7:58:27 PM

get unda someone else

10/21/2009 7:59:39 PM

cut off all ties with them and move on to someone else has been my previous method.

This time I still talk to him and trying to stay emotionally detached from all romantic relationships.
It's a lot harder this way.

10/21/2009 8:00:32 PM

it'll be okay buddy, there are more buttholes in the sea

10/21/2009 8:01:34 PM

it just sorta sucks

i've been in relationships before, but i've never had this much of a problem getting over someone

it sounds stupid but it feels like he was the dude i was supposed to be with

10/21/2009 8:02:08 PM

I know a gay guy I can hook you up with.

10/21/2009 8:02:55 PM

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"i couldn't ever date a woman fucking is a different story however"

Wait, so you'd actually be interested in fucking a chick?

Doesn't that make you...not totally gay?

10/21/2009 8:03:38 PM

don't talk to them for a while...doesnt have to be forever, but long enough so that you can move on...and rebounds rarely work for anyone in the long term.

10/21/2009 8:03:59 PM

^^i have been known to do so before

^that's the biggest problem, he still says i'm his best friend and he doesn't want to ruin that

10/21/2009 8:04:06 PM

just spend a lot of time hanging out with your friends

and don't sit in your house, get out

basically avoid anything that combines being alone and in your own house

10/21/2009 8:05:54 PM

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"it sounds stupid but it feels like he was the dude i was supposed to be with"

that sucks, man...but you're pretty young. if you've met one such person, you'll probably meet another.

10/21/2009 8:06:13 PM

Im going through my first big break-up. He was the first guy I ever slept with and the only real relationship I've ever been in. He doesn't care for me as much as I care for him. We broke up for a couple of months, then we started sleeping together again. I fell for him all over again but he hasn't changed.

In some ways it's more hurtful the second time around. I know now that there isn't any hope for us. It's really over.

10/21/2009 8:06:27 PM

It's a theory that there is no such thing as completely heterosexual and homosexual.

10/21/2009 8:06:48 PM

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"Everyone's gay, it's just to what extent you're gay"

[Edited on October 21, 2009 at 8:07 PM. Reason : .]

10/21/2009 8:07:30 PM

you have to do what's best for your sanity...if that means taking time away from a "best friend", then do it. do what you need to do for you and if you're really his best friend, he'll still be there later if you decide you're okay with just friends.

10/21/2009 8:08:46 PM

Remaining friends creates baggage which harms your future relationships.

So unless you're going to get back together with that person, or want to try, then cut them out of your life completely.

It sucks, but it truly IS the only way. I'm a firm believer in it.

10/21/2009 8:10:37 PM

Bourbon
Good girlfriends
Dating new people
New hobbies

Success is great revenge. So is happiness.

10/21/2009 8:11:02 PM

is it bad that i feel like i want to try and get him back?

10/21/2009 8:11:23 PM

It's pretty normal, especially if you didn't want the relationship to be over.

10/21/2009 8:11:54 PM

not at all.

normal reaction.

and you might even be successful.

Just be careful what you wish for.

10/21/2009 8:11:59 PM

drinking and much sex with many anonymous partners.

10/21/2009 8:12:25 PM

set'em up

10/21/2009 8:13:07 PM