...in the same room or elevator or whatever with you? Awkward as in being self conscious about some part of her body or feature when they are in the presence of another/ prettier girl?

1/4/2010 10:52:07 PM

aahhhh yes

1/4/2010 10:53:57 PM

uh no. i'm always said other girl.

1/4/2010 10:54:12 PM

I'm usually too awkward and self conscious to notice such things about other people.

1/4/2010 10:54:22 PM

Yes.

1/4/2010 10:54:40 PM

i'm always thinking "i want to put my face in your boobies" and cannot make eye contact. i'm all like "damn girl, get your boobs off my eyes."

1/4/2010 10:55:42 PM

^ I'm gonna use that sometime...

1/4/2010 10:58:23 PM

Can't say I do, but I also don't really give a shit about the feelings of lesser beings

1/4/2010 10:58:31 PM

tell me about what happened

1/4/2010 10:58:41 PM

I've noticed a lot of girls will try to draw attention to their awkward feature to make themself feel better about it. Like if they think another girl's legs are nicer, they may ask girl with nicer legs "my legs aren't ugly are they?" in hopes of getting nice-legged girl to say something like "oh no! your legs are pretty!"

[Edited on January 4, 2010 at 10:59 PM. Reason : .]

1/4/2010 10:58:49 PM

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"I'm gonna use that sometime..."

I swear to you, I read something along those lines in a book just today. The girl thinks to herself "Damnit, why can't I get my breasts off of his eyes."

1/4/2010 11:00:02 PM

My eyes like cleavage. A lot.

1/4/2010 11:01:43 PM

I notice it. They prob notice it about me, too, at times.

OMG! I def try not do the comparison thing. I hate that!!!

1/4/2010 11:02:12 PM

Yes

1/4/2010 11:02:36 PM

I mean, if you put it out there, I'm going to look. Sometimes I really do try to resist, however, I can't help but admire beauty when I see it.

1/4/2010 11:04:36 PM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xSinrR1SHVA

1/4/2010 11:04:38 PM

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"I mean, if you put it out there, I'm going to look. Sometimes I really do try to resist, however, I can't help but admire beauty when I see it. "

ditto!!! We are so alike I am finding, smores!

1/4/2010 11:05:34 PM

Honestly, instead of being awkward about my insecurities, I tend to come on a bit strong and overly honest. Like "OMG, your hair is beautiful. Can I touch it?"

My husband says that I'd be a really creepy dude. Uhm, I say that being a chick doesn't make me any less creepy.

1/4/2010 11:06:50 PM

that might be how I do it. I feel like a total creep towards Joie sometimes. I think I just love oggling her body bc I would like mine to look like her's. Alas, there is nothing I can do about the height and the genetic differences.

1/4/2010 11:08:34 PM

Well in elevators, it's heard to break a silence. I have a hard time deciding if I should start conversation or not.

I don't know if anyone is like me...but in the morning when Im trying to get to my place...I wanna be left alone, I'm a terrible talker in the morning.

1/4/2010 11:09:00 PM

so this is just in elevators? My bad...I should pay more attention.

[Edited on January 4, 2010 at 11:10 PM. Reason : ]

1/4/2010 11:09:59 PM

ROOM or elevator.

it's ok, amna.

1/4/2010 11:10:34 PM

well any small confinded space really.

Although restaurants...even though they try not to you can see it in the corner of their eyes. Or at music shows. I guess it's all over...doesn't matter where.

1/4/2010 11:13:07 PM

you gals remind me of the girls that used to make out with each other for guy's attention....(and here's where you say you didn't)

1/4/2010 11:13:58 PM

exactly. at a certain point this crap loses its potency

1/4/2010 11:15:19 PM

Oh, I did. Lots.
I would have kissed them if no one was looking, though. I can't say the same for them.

1/4/2010 11:16:18 PM

yeah, we get it...you like chicks.....we get it

[Edited on January 4, 2010 at 11:17 PM. Reason : and i sorta meant you would say you didn't do it for attention]

1/4/2010 11:17:13 PM

*shrugs*

Whatever. I don't get to do it anymore.

1/4/2010 11:18:12 PM

sex in the city ITT

1/4/2010 11:18:15 PM

1/4/2010 11:19:39 PM

let's get back on topic, please.

I think all women at some point are insecure even if it has nothing to do with looks. If a woman is plain and she knows how to program computers, knows different languages enough to converse, or knows a lot about politics, I get so insecure. I bet that really screams that I am insecure to other women. I get so nervous and don't know what to say.

1/4/2010 11:36:34 PM

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"but in the morning when Im trying to get to my place...I wanna be left alone, I'm a terrible talker in the morning. "

haha I know what you mean. I really hate when I'm riding the train to work and one of my students' runs into me. They feel the need to make idle chit chat when all I want to do is wallow in self-pity that I'm not still asleep.

1/4/2010 11:38:59 PM

^^ oh look you're the one that started the tangent by agreeing with the dude who said he liked staring at girls bodies

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"ditto!!! We are so alike I am finding, smores!"

[Edited on January 4, 2010 at 11:40 PM. Reason : s]

1/4/2010 11:39:59 PM

If guys got insecure every time some other dude was better at something than them, it'd be a huge problem. You just have to be confident in what you are good at/knowledgeable about, and leave it at that. If someone is just straight up better/more attractive/smarter than you, it's pretty easy to just laugh about it...no big deal. Chicks just analyze shit way too much.

1/4/2010 11:42:21 PM

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"Chicks just analyze shit way too much."

very accurate.

1/4/2010 11:42:57 PM

Very inaccurate... So much for analysis.

1/4/2010 11:44:27 PM

^^ No they don't.

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_lossadvice-needed_.0?cm_ven=Responsys&cm_cat=KnotNews&cm_ite=January%2004,%202010



[Edited on January 4, 2010 at 11:46 PM. Reason : v]

1/4/2010 11:45:21 PM

^^Good point, bro. There are men that analyze shit more than women. That's something that I didn't know, and no one else on TWW knew either. It's not like I was making a generalization, or anything.

1/4/2010 11:47:08 PM

sollinari is trying too hard ITT

1/4/2010 11:47:40 PM

^^^^ riding the tails is perfectly valid when talking about pro-sports.

And bigger doesn’t always mean size/weight, it means muscle mass, which clearly men have a monopoly on, when it comes to athletics.

[Edited on January 4, 2010 at 11:49 PM. Reason : ]

1/4/2010 11:48:45 PM

So sorry to bring up things such as facts and science...

I did not realize this was the emotional reactions to contradictory data and comfortable beliefs thread.

[Edited on January 4, 2010 at 11:52 PM. Reason : s]

1/4/2010 11:48:53 PM

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"I did not realize this was the emotional reactions "

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"Awkward as in being self conscious about some part of her body or feature when they are in the presence of another/ prettier girl? "

Nope, not at all.

1/4/2010 11:50:58 PM

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"It's not like I was making a generalization, or anything."

The point is, those generalizations (women analyze too much) are not accurate and are not born out by a critical scientific analysis.

Perhaps we should return to the original topic and continue discussing which girls claim to imagine that other girls are intimidated by their stunning gorgeous bodies.


[Edited on January 4, 2010 at 11:55 PM. Reason : s]

1/4/2010 11:53:12 PM

It's not supposed to be critical scientific analysis. It's based purely off of my life experiences. Just like a generalization that "men are, on average, taller and have greater muscle mass" is based off of life experiences. I didn't do any kind of analysis, there. At the same time, you're an idiot if you don't agree with me that on average, men are more muscular and taller.

1/4/2010 11:56:02 PM

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"It's not supposed to be critical scientific analysis. It's based purely off of my life experiences."

and you rip on christians....

[Edited on January 4, 2010 at 11:57 PM. Reason : s]

1/4/2010 11:57:13 PM

Sollinari is a robot. be boop be boop

1/4/2010 11:57:49 PM

guys are insecure in different ways. why I guess not so different in let's say, a gym.

1/4/2010 11:58:15 PM

robots have a keen sense for the awkward moments.

1/4/2010 11:59:15 PM

robots are strong, and eat old people's medicine for fuel

1/5/2010 10:37:28 AM

any girls you meet in alcohol/drug class is a bad idea for a gf (trust me)

1/5/2010 10:40:05 AM