dnl, does it matter whether a chick had 15 (arbitrary number) one night stands or if she dated 15 different guys? Do you think there is a difference between the two?


[Edited on July 28, 2008 at 7:51 PM. Reason : dnl]

7/28/2008 7:50:08 PM

hmmmm those are both good posts...let me think about it for a sec


for the record i do not consider 10 to be a whorish amount, especially at age 26

[Edited on July 28, 2008 at 7:51 PM. Reason : ^yes]

7/28/2008 7:51:13 PM

why?

7/28/2008 7:51:54 PM

cause i consider girls that have numerous one night stands to be "slutty" or "whorish"


i look down on dudes that do that shit too

7/28/2008 7:52:41 PM

why does that matter if she's with you for the long term?

7/28/2008 7:53:49 PM

^^ well then there is your qualifier. it shouldn't matter how many sexual partners she has had, but rather how many 1 night stands she has had

7/28/2008 7:54:48 PM

^^what i'm saying is i wouldnt get with a girl like that for the long term...i wouldnt give what i consider a "skank" the time of day

[Edited on July 28, 2008 at 7:55 PM. Reason : ^ok fair enough]

7/28/2008 7:54:50 PM

nvm, fuck this. I'm going to the gym.

7/28/2008 7:54:54 PM

because i have had this argument with women in the past when they have asked me how many women I have been with. I tell them (14) and a lot of times I get the "GASP!!! THAT IS A LOT" So I have to break it down. I lost my virginity when I was 17, and I am 29 now. That is pretty much 1 a year. I have never had a 1 night stand, and I have never had multiple partners at the same time (i.e., sleeping with 1 girl 1 night, and a different girl another night).

in other words, sexual history is MUUUUUUCH deeper than just a number, hence it is not a good qualifier

[Edited on July 28, 2008 at 7:58 PM. Reason : did i win?]

7/28/2008 7:58:15 PM

I just don't want to know... whorish is an attitude not a number

7/28/2008 8:00:11 PM

dj..i guess it depends on the guy and girl and how quick they hit it off...i definitely have met some chicks i'd bwn first day...and others that i didnt want to bwn first thing cause i knew they were clingy...but i didnt consider any of them whores anyways

i guess over like 15 or so by age 23? i'm one of those ltr kinda guys i guess so to me how can you have more than 15 if you are relationship quality...unless all your relationships are like 2 months in which case i probably wouldnt date you anyways...who wants to date someone for 2 months?

7/28/2008 8:01:52 PM

and if a chick slept with you on the first night you wouldn't think she was a whore?

7/28/2008 8:02:48 PM

if that first night was just meeting her at the club ... yeah

but if it was a real date with some butterflies and such..... no.

7/28/2008 8:04:21 PM

not necessarily but maybe

[Edited on July 28, 2008 at 8:05 PM. Reason : ^good example]

7/28/2008 8:04:47 PM

^^, well put.

7/28/2008 8:05:20 PM

^ agreed, i was just playing devil's advocate

7/28/2008 8:06:13 PM

also...i would only go on dates like what sumf001 said with the butterflies...i have no interest in picking up women at bars and clubs because i cant dance and dont really like to drink, so me picking up a woman there that does like those things wouldnt make sense

[Edited on July 28, 2008 at 8:08 PM. Reason : .]

7/28/2008 8:07:45 PM

^ you dont like to drink ?

7/28/2008 8:11:12 PM

not usually...the 2 times you met me were the 2 of the most drunkest times i've been in like 4-5 months

[Edited on July 28, 2008 at 8:12 PM. Reason : i'll admit i like it more than smoking weed just cause the social aspect]

7/28/2008 8:12:09 PM

^sure sure

7/28/2008 8:14:54 PM

do i give the impression of a drunk or something??

7/28/2008 8:15:32 PM

Quote :

"most drunkest"

7/28/2008 8:21:26 PM

well mama said i aint no english major

7/28/2008 8:22:05 PM

hahah our lil grammar nazi...

hell you even look like the "master race"

7/28/2008 8:26:19 PM

"white, single, and hot"? lol

7/28/2008 8:28:26 PM

^^^^^ nah just saying you drink dont act like its a horrible thing to like

[Edited on July 28, 2008 at 10:21 PM. Reason : hjk]

7/28/2008 10:20:42 PM

i guess it depends on who i'm around

7/28/2008 10:30:07 PM

this thread let me down. it slid off course.

7/29/2008 12:51:03 AM

Quote :

"I haven't asked a chick how many guys she's been with in... *thinking* ...7 years."

w34d

I regret every dude I've ever been with and wish they'd vanish into thin air, and my memories with them.

7/29/2008 1:13:44 AM

7/29/2008 1:14:42 AM

Is a girl more of a slutter if she blows 50000 guys or sleeps with 50?

Metricula, I need your help here.

7/29/2008 1:26:37 AM

^^^

7/29/2008 1:27:39 AM

^^,

Quote :

"As long as the sex is good and she's clean then what difference does it make? "

As far as I'm concerned, if a girl has some experience, thats less I have to teach her. Not to sound arrogant or pompous, but yeah.

[Edited on July 29, 2008 at 1:29 AM. Reason : .]

7/29/2008 1:28:04 AM

Well, every one except the one I'm with, who is fucking awesome.

7/29/2008 1:28:50 AM

Why are people who want sex w/o relationships considered whores/skanks/sluts?

If I think a chick is cute, and fun to have drinks with, but I don't want to listen to her foreign policy views, why can't I just bang her? Same goes for women not caring about listening to a guy talk about cars.

7/29/2008 1:39:55 AM