Fine, don't listen to me. But here I am five years down the road after saying the same thing and my ass is married to the guy and I have his kid.

I mean, I'm happy and all. But you're doomed if you don't get out now.

7/8/2008 1:18:39 PM

this song seems appropriate


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wlrXIvMmG3s

7/8/2008 1:20:18 PM

my situation is also similar. told her that I just got out of a 3 year relationship that ended badly, and that I in no way wanted anything serious. just friends, maybe casual dating. after we went out to dinner one night she wanted to stay at my place. I even offered to sleep on the couch, as to "not complicate things". she refused. she told me that she could handle friends with benefits, and that she just got out of a relationship and didn't want anything serious either. the next couple nights we slept together a several times. now all of a sudden she wants something serious. even said that she wants to be married in the next 3 years.

7/8/2008 1:20:25 PM

ps bonnie raitt

pps ^that story

[Edited on July 8, 2008 at 1:21 PM. Reason : .]

7/8/2008 1:20:59 PM

haha, im just sticking around with her until khcadwal is single

[Edited on July 8, 2008 at 1:23 PM. Reason : [no creepy] -- damn killed the thread]

7/8/2008 1:21:06 PM

Be honest. If that doesn't work...then just ignore the fuck out of her. You did your part, if she can't do hers, then you shouldn't feel bad about being a dick. She's got to learn somehow.

7/8/2008 1:26:28 PM

^

To djeternal's story:

7/8/2008 1:28:03 PM

Quote :

"[no creepy] "

ahha

i think its within the rules to call [no homo]

but i dont think you can call a no creepy on yourself

YOU KNOW IM JUST PLAYIN, KID

7/8/2008 1:28:32 PM

^^^^ lol sorrrry i got distracted. but i gotta warn you i'm not on tww's a list OR b list. and i will force you into marriage within 2 years. and i need kids at 26, 28, 30, and 32. no excuses.

[Edited on July 8, 2008 at 1:29 PM. Reason : .]

7/8/2008 1:29:25 PM

haha, i was going to put [no chembob] but i didnt think anyone would get it

[Edited on July 8, 2008 at 1:30 PM. Reason : ^^]

7/8/2008 1:29:45 PM

OH SNAP, damn woman, let the stitches heal at least.

7/8/2008 1:30:29 PM

maybe dj's girl is playing the fanatic card to ditch him?

nah, nvm, its a chick, who am i kidding

7/8/2008 1:30:31 PM

Quote :

"i will force you into marriage within 2 years. and i need kids at 26, 28, 30, and 32. no excuses."

haha, does tschudi know this?

7/8/2008 1:32:15 PM

haha yeah im just playing around. im pretty sure i extended an open-ended invitation for her to come out downtown with us one night when i found out she was in school here. so that could be creepy too! although "us" would be me and a girl so i find myself not guilty of attempted e-game

7/8/2008 1:32:46 PM

at least the sex is good

7/8/2008 1:33:14 PM

hey djeternal whats yours look like, lets trade for a little while or something

7/8/2008 1:34:02 PM

Quote :

"thoughts on how to abandon ship without being a dick?"

don't abandon ship.

just be upfront with her about how you want to make sure that she knows that you will be fucking other girls, so that she can decide whether it's a relationship she still wants to pursue.

Either she'll make the decision to abandon ship

or

she'll be fine with you fucking other girls, and it's a win-win for you.

7/8/2008 1:34:36 PM

Quote :

"the next couple nights we slept together a several times. now all of a sudden she wants something serious. even said that she wants to be married in the next 3 years."

run away. run very far away.

7/8/2008 1:35:14 PM

^5 (i think) hahaha i'm not creeped out school just takes up a lot of my time. maybe this year. and thanks for inviting me on a date with you and another girl, i see how it is

Quote :

"haha, does tschudi know this? "

nah, all part of my secret plan to ruin the lives of men. muhahaha.

[Edited on July 8, 2008 at 1:35 PM. Reason : ^^^^^^]

7/8/2008 1:35:17 PM

Quote :

"hey djeternal whats yours look like, lets trade for a little while or something"

PM Sent

7/8/2008 1:37:43 PM

stupid song

7/8/2008 1:38:08 PM

you can try to ruin me all you want
but
ill still win in the end

7/8/2008 1:38:27 PM

hahah im sorry, it was an attempted 3-some after she gave me the green light.

YOU KNOW I'M PLAYIN

but yeah there are like 3 people ive talked to about tww spotting. we were gonna do a thirsty thursday or something. still might. BUT MAYBE NEXT YEAR YOU CAN GO

7/8/2008 1:39:19 PM

next year? nah dude, we doing it next time they are in town

7/8/2008 1:41:31 PM

oh yeah thats what i was emphasizing. the original tww swap meet is still on, even if khc is too cool to go this year

7/8/2008 1:48:40 PM

let it be known, i can still pull hot chicks

7/8/2008 1:49:47 PM

yeah your girl is hot, i clicked pics to check out more but it tried to get me to login and i feel like a stalker

mine is a cartoon.

haha im kidding... OF COURSE IM GONNA LOG IN.

7/8/2008 1:56:36 PM

your trapped go ahead and get her knocked up and marry a bitch

7/8/2008 1:57:55 PM

nah, then I would have to push her down the stairs too

7/8/2008 1:58:49 PM

btw djeternal - do you still live over there by my cousin (where the gay weatherman lived)

[Edited on July 8, 2008 at 2:02 PM. Reason : not the one you went to HS with]

7/8/2008 2:01:59 PM

hell yeah scott petterson the shit out of that slut

7/8/2008 2:02:04 PM

^^ nah I have a pretty badass house over near lake jeanette now. too bad I can't afford it and my roommate owes me $350 back rent. speaking of which, you need a room to rent?

7/8/2008 2:03:45 PM

this is why I abstain from pre-marital sex

7/8/2008 2:03:55 PM

ah word. nah i have a place in the old stomping grounds at battleground and cone. but if i hear of anyone [normal] looking, i'll let you know

7/8/2008 2:06:14 PM

Quote :

"this is why I abstain from pre-marital sex"

Not good enough reason.

7/8/2008 2:08:30 PM

^^ yeah, let me know because I am about to kick this nigga to the curb.

sucks too, because he is really the perfect roommate. I never see him, and he spends almost every night at his girlfriend's place.

7/8/2008 2:09:27 PM

Quote :

"just be upfront with her about how you want to make sure that she knows that you will be fucking other girls, so that she can decide whether it's a relationship she still wants to pursue. Either she'll make the decision to abandon ship or she'll be fine with you fucking other girls, and it's a win-win for you."

ftw

7/8/2008 2:10:17 PM

i can put up flyers for you at the next NA meeting, or at the outpatient center. what's your address?

7/8/2008 2:11:34 PM

Sounds to me like she already got it! lolol

Sorry, couldn't resist.

7/8/2008 2:13:00 PM

ha ha good one bethaLOL

7/8/2008 2:16:52 PM

Quote :

"stop fucking her"

ftw

7/8/2008 2:32:29 PM

Tell her that you are a sniper in Delta Force and that you ship out tomorrow.

7/8/2008 4:34:14 PM

^ as cool as that would sound, i dont think she'd buy it

7/8/2008 5:01:16 PM

You should go George Costanza and start some really bad habits.

Take up smoking.
Leave pics of nude girls in an easy to find place.
Leave a gay mag or a 50+ mag in the bathroom.
Tell her you're not going to wear deodorant any more

7/8/2008 5:11:06 PM

i dont understand why people have such a problem with being honest

if you're not into someone, say so and leave

are people really that insecure that they would rather lead someone on "because they were up front" than to be alone and wait for someone who was worth their time?

i mean if you're looking for a consistent lay, your best bet is a girlfriend. if you can't stand the thought of a girlfriend, then fuck bitches and leave, don't act like a nice guy and stick around when you're not. no wonder girls get so confused.

and btw, no message will get through a girls head that you're just looking for sex unless you say "i'm just looking for sex" anything else will make her think there is a chance.

7/8/2008 5:16:12 PM

Quote :

"too late to not be a dick... should have made things clear in the beginning. [Edited on July 8, 2008 at 10:57 AM. Reason : girls automatically assume you're into them unless you make it clear it's a hookup]"

this is the stupidest shit ever

[Edited on July 8, 2008 at 5:18 PM. Reason : btw is this a wolfweb girl? sounds like some shit an ugly wolfweb girl would do(get lovey dovey)]

7/8/2008 5:18:03 PM

Quote :

"then fuck bitches and leave,"

oh my god it is so hot when it comes out of your mouth

pm me sometime girl

7/8/2008 5:18:45 PM

and as has been discussed the "i'm just looking for sex" line might even lead them to think theres a chance. so you really need to emphasize it. may be follow up with an "absolutely nothing else"

7/8/2008 5:18:46 PM

and a "Do you fucking understand me?"

7/8/2008 5:19:35 PM

go ahead and tell her you're not looking for a relationship, just a fuck buddy. If that doesn't work, have a friend call her and say that you died in a really bad wreck and there was nothing left.

[Edited on July 8, 2008 at 5:20 PM. Reason : ]

7/8/2008 5:19:45 PM