Well Kiwi is right...no one knows what I want more than...ME2[Edited on July 27, 2008 at 2:47 PM. Reason : page toppa]
7/27/2008 2:47:41 PM
good idea on the edit
7/27/2008 2:47:42 PM
if a chick tells me porn chicks she likes i usually end up using what they used just to like add to the illusion i guess[Edited on July 27, 2008 at 2:50 PM. Reason : ^^thats the reason i dont like handjobs]
7/27/2008 2:49:32 PM
sigh, FTW? what is your definition of clingy? I don't see the point of having a GF if you just hang out 1 or 2 or even 3 nights a week. I can go to south glenwood and get that. I like having someone to hang out with and joke with. Now if you're talking about someone who wants to be all over you in the same room all the goddamn time then no, fuck that.
7/27/2008 2:52:47 PM
can't stand women that can't be alone. clingyness is such a pain in the ass. ^And there's a difference in hating being alone and hating not being with their boyfriend.[Edited on July 27, 2008 at 2:54 PM. Reason : .]
7/27/2008 2:53:26 PM
i guess i thought it was ftw cause i'm somewhat clingyi cant help it imo...i dont meet that many attractive women so when i do i get clingy...i guess the trick is finding a chick thats clingy back
7/27/2008 2:54:26 PM
Well when I do get to see my guy and we're just chilling in the same room every once in a while I'll snuggle up against, or if he's sitting on the couch I'll stradle him and shit like that for a few minutes then walk away. Is that clingy? I just like being intimate, it makes me feel good haha
7/27/2008 2:54:50 PM
What starts pissing me off is when she starts making plans for the two of you without asking. "Aww, thats too bad. I have stuff to do that day. Should have asked first."
7/27/2008 2:56:45 PM
no, clingy is bitching and moaning whenever your bf wants to hang out with his guy friends, or if he doesn't want you to spend the night because he has to get up early, shit like that is so aggravating.my gf is fucking awesome about this, she's got the debutante ball or whatever in September but she won't let me be her date for stuff that weekend because she doesn't want me to miss my birthday.[Edited on July 27, 2008 at 2:57 PM. Reason : .][Edited on July 27, 2008 at 2:59 PM. Reason : .]
7/27/2008 2:56:46 PM
Shit I encourage my guys to go out with their friends, or if they don't have any, to make some. And if you're really a team you'll make decisions together ...
7/27/2008 2:57:42 PM
^^, See, I wouldn't call that clingy. That's being whiny. No guy likes that shit.[Edited on July 27, 2008 at 3:03 PM. Reason : ^^]
7/27/2008 2:58:45 PM
What's whiny? Encouraging your guy to have a life outside you?
7/27/2008 2:59:34 PM
^^^^^if i were attracted to the girl i wouldnt give a fuck what plans she made...long as they are with me [Edited on July 27, 2008 at 2:59 PM. Reason : .]
7/27/2008 2:59:51 PM
see you're putting the pussy on a pedestal here.most women are attracted to a provider dude, if the guy is clingy then you better have alot to provide.[Edited on July 27, 2008 at 3:02 PM. Reason : .]
7/27/2008 3:00:30 PM
i've heard that for like the past 4 years like i said i cant help that i'm clingy...i dont often meet women i would bwn and i'm one of those only bwn women i care about that i'd get in a relationship with...one night stands are not my kinda thing...cause i'd get attached probably and then get hurt etc[Edited on July 27, 2008 at 3:02 PM. Reason : ^shit imo i got a ton to provide][Edited on July 27, 2008 at 3:02 PM. Reason : thats why i'm not attracted to many women...cause i dont consider many to be on my level]
7/27/2008 3:02:14 PM
So you're basically a woman with a penis, AMIRITE?
7/27/2008 3:03:40 PM
^haha, it doesn't matter if you know deep inside that you have alot to give, it has to show.[Edited on July 27, 2008 at 3:07 PM. Reason : .]
7/27/2008 3:06:45 PM
Josh, you gotta realize that women are not more important than you are. They aren't going to see what kind of a guy you are if you try to be prince charming all the time.
7/27/2008 3:07:11 PM
well thats another flaw i havesometimes i'm self centered....like the most important person is me imo[Edited on July 27, 2008 at 3:08 PM. Reason : probably why i attention whore so much on here sometimes][Edited on July 27, 2008 at 3:08 PM. Reason : .]
7/27/2008 3:08:11 PM
if you try to hard it also shows. If you find yourself worrying about women alot, which you do imo, find something you're good at, and go occupy your mind, the more and more you do that, the more and more you have to talk to women about. Almost every girl i've ever dated thought I was a dick when they first met me, just because they weren't used to someone not complimenting them all the time.
7/27/2008 3:11:32 PM
lol trust me...i dont have a prob having a convo with a woman...i can talk for hours about multiple things...its just i dont get attracted to many women...only ones that i find classy(which i dont find many of)[Edited on July 27, 2008 at 3:14 PM. Reason : i guess i should just try to get more girl friends...and hope they have hot classy friends]
7/27/2008 3:13:27 PM
bars and tww are probably not where you should be looking. Even though alot of the girls on tww are cute.[Edited on July 27, 2008 at 3:16 PM. Reason : .]
7/27/2008 3:15:36 PM
i tried looking in dh hill and lake johnson for like 3 months if that counts[Edited on July 27, 2008 at 3:16 PM. Reason : i got an internship but i dont know about the interns...only one attracts me really]
7/27/2008 3:16:10 PM
I'm going to start a business at Lake Johnson. I'll rent puppies/dogs, babies and wedding rings to single guys to walk around the lake with.
7/27/2008 3:17:35 PM
thats what i did for about a 5 month period...everyone would always say hey when i walked by cause my bitch was 110 pounds and gentle as hell...but how do you freaking stop someone in the middle of their walk and like get to know them/get their number, etc in that situation...too awkward for me...most i could do was say like hey and keep walking
7/27/2008 3:19:31 PM
^ I live on lake johnson and my dog is a chick magnet
7/27/2008 3:24:39 PM
how do you stop the person while shes walking and mack on her?like i said i'm kinda one of those nice "not a player" dudes, so most i can say is hi without feeling like a creep
7/27/2008 3:29:40 PM
Because you feel like a creep you are a creep. If you're confident find something about them to break the ice. Like when they say hey be like "Hey, where'd you get your running shoes from? I'm in need of a pair and yours are the type I'm looking for" or some bs like that and if she catches that hook you're awesome.
7/27/2008 3:33:42 PM
no offense but thats dumbto have a convo such as that you would have to stop the chick...we are walking different directions so i have about 2 seconds just to mutter a "hey"...me asking about shoes is at least a 30sec to minute convo...at minimum
7/27/2008 3:36:53 PM
Isn't the point to stop the person so you can get their digits?
7/27/2008 3:37:43 PM
smile man, bitches love smilies.
PLUSi always worry that a chick has a bf so i dont want to hit on them and seem like a douche thats trying to get up with some chick thats already got a man[Edited on July 27, 2008 at 3:38 PM. Reason : ^haha i hate my smile ][Edited on July 27, 2008 at 3:38 PM. Reason : ^^isnt the point of going to lake johnson to exercise, not pick up women...i'm not like that...]
7/27/2008 3:37:52 PM
no you just say hey nice shoes and start asking about them.. she'll either turn around and talk or look at you like you're an idiot and keep walkingit does not take 30 seconds to ask about her shoes
7/27/2008 3:38:23 PM
yeah see i hate that idiot aspect...i hate putting myself out there
7/27/2008 3:39:20 PM
she'll let you know she has a BF if she's not interested. How can you know? you can't so don't worry about it.
7/27/2008 3:39:56 PM
Gotta do it sometimes or you'll never know. Didn't know if my current guy would do it til I texted some crazy shit to him haah with the help of alcohol.It can be scary but it's so worth it when you find a winner.
7/27/2008 3:40:11 PM
I feel confident right now that I could go around lake johnson and get at least one woman to stop and talk. I haven't seen many attractive ones, but i've only lived here since school let out for the summer.[Edited on July 27, 2008 at 3:41 PM. Reason : .]
7/27/2008 3:40:40 PM
i'm too shy, clingy, and self conscious [Edited on July 27, 2008 at 3:41 PM. Reason : ^so could i if i tried...]
7/27/2008 3:41:19 PM
these are things that can be fixed.
7/27/2008 3:42:42 PM
7/27/2008 4:13:22 PM
why do people think a woman that hates being alone is also clingy? I hate being alone sometimes, but not in the relationship sense. I just like being around people.
7/27/2008 4:18:40 PM
i think it means hate being away from their bf, and/or not being in a relationship.[Edited on July 27, 2008 at 4:20 PM. Reason : .]
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7/27/2008 4:47:25 PM