djeternal is dropping a fuckton of truth in this thread

8/10/2008 8:48:11 PM

Myspace ruins a lot of relationships, and I can tell you that first hand

8/10/2008 8:49:17 PM

but is he on your friend list? regardless if he's friends with your friends or not. for him it mean now all these random people know your info.

you should get over him call him less and hang out with him less.

for shits and giggles you should go on a random date and then post about it on myspace.

8/10/2008 8:49:59 PM

Anyone who goes out "looking for a relationship" already has their priorities wrong. You go out looking for a person, and let the relationship, whatever relationship that may be, evolve from the interaction between to minds / souls / genitalia / whatever.

Forcing someone into a preconceived notion of interaction isn't the fast road to happiness. At least not IMHO.

8/10/2008 8:50:48 PM

keep your relationship thoughts off the internet for christ's sake. talk to the fuckin' guy in person. how difficult is that

8/10/2008 8:51:00 PM

women just love to play these little games, Myspace just gives them a new angle to play them

8/10/2008 8:51:05 PM

^^ wins the thread.

^ not all women but yes, quite a few.

8/10/2008 8:51:45 PM

I'll add to 'let this one go'...

... also, date around - and let a guy ask YOU for exclusivity... if he wants to be with you, he isn't going to want you seeing other people and will say so.

... I don't buy the anti-marriage and anti-exclusivity bit. Without sounding harsh, it's probably that he just doesn't want those things with you. If it's great and you're what he really wants, it won't be an issue.

... Avoid public displays of drama - this includes putting it on myspace. I'd run away from anyone who did that to me, and couldn't expect any less from a partner.

... Not everything has to be discussed and formal. Have fun, and the rest will work itself out.

8/10/2008 8:53:02 PM

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"So when the guy they like isn't returning the affection, it says something like "is wondering why boys just don't get it" or "is giving up on men"."

I worked with a dude like that - he is in his fifties and is annoying as fuck. If he's having a bad day, he has to act like it so EVERYONE knows something's going on with him, and we all have a bad day with him. Then he mumbles shit about giving up on women and glaring at women he works with.

The next week he's back to flirting with coworkers.

8/10/2008 8:53:03 PM

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"sounds like you don't want to be in a relationship with her."

No, it's mutual. She's in graduate school and works part-time, I work full-time and I'm finishing up my degree. While neither of us are really seeing anyone else, we've agreed (at least for the time being) to not put a label on what we are.

8/10/2008 8:54:02 PM

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"he is in his fifties"

too young for you then, no?


sorry, i couldn't resist

8/10/2008 8:54:12 PM

So is he a swinger, or not really interested in you? Different things.

If he's the swinger type and you are jealous I guess it won't work out so that doesn't really matter. If he's got a couple of regular booty calls set up, why'd he give them up for a chick he's only been dating a couple weeks?

8/10/2008 8:54:15 PM

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"Not everything has to be discussed and formal. Have fun, and the rest will work itself out."

favorite quote of the thread.

8/10/2008 8:54:55 PM

it's not a preconceived notion, its a matter of goals and what someone is looking for in a relationship. He's looking for an open one, I'm not.

8/10/2008 8:55:08 PM

ok? case closed? stop blogging about it?

8/10/2008 8:55:39 PM

he was just trying to get his dick wet...and is still trying to get his dick wet.


he probably doesnt want to hurt your feelings by making you feel like you're a toy.... but thats all you are.

and if you two become exclusive... he's gonna have to pay for dates and shit and no guy wants to do that when they get some ass for free.

if you like the sex keep fucking... just make sure to wrap it up.

8/10/2008 8:56:07 PM

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"He's looking for an open one, I'm not."

Then there really shouldn't be any question. Drop him.

8/10/2008 8:57:09 PM

you should probably move on, and I am sure moving on will involve you making a 2 page blog on MySpace about how much of an ass he is.

8/10/2008 8:58:22 PM

she probably uses live journal

8/10/2008 8:59:28 PM

nah. myspace. we're FRIENDS.

8/10/2008 9:03:43 PM

Maybe you should take a very long break from any attempts at relationships for a while.

You seem to be bringing a spectacular amount of failure to every attempt.

8/10/2008 9:06:19 PM

so to sum up

stop posting relationship stuff on lj/myspace
don't date him any more


aww, ambrosia, always as sweet as her name


I went a whole 6 months without a relationship. I guess I just know how to pick-em


[Edited on August 10, 2008 at 9:08 PM. Reason : d]

8/10/2008 9:06:55 PM

well, you can post relationship stuff if you IN FACT are IN a relationship, and the person you are in a relationship with has no problem with it.

posting shit about a dating situation that is kind of up in the air in the first place is never a good idea

8/10/2008 9:08:08 PM

so I should have just waited until I was really in love with him to find out he didn' t want an exclusive relationship

8/10/2008 9:09:03 PM

When would that have been? After 7 weeks?

8/10/2008 9:09:27 PM

lol

girl logic

8/10/2008 9:10:23 PM

^^^Or you could just relax on the relationship front, and let some of the crazy GTFO.

8/10/2008 9:10:57 PM

I dunno why the crazy comes about. I'm trying to find out

8/10/2008 9:14:38 PM

^^ +1

If he wants to take things slow, you need to find someone as needy as you are.

[Edited on August 10, 2008 at 9:27 PM. Reason : ...]

8/10/2008 9:15:25 PM

The 'crazy' is probably b/c you want it to work out so bad, that you're doing nutzo stuff to make it happen - as opposed to just being you and having a good time. You don't need a title to do that... nor do you need to be in love.

8/10/2008 9:17:57 PM

I am going to speak for Michael here and tell you that you should definitely keep fucking him, regardless of what you decide to do about the relationship

8/10/2008 9:18:43 PM

hahahaha

8/10/2008 9:19:00 PM

^^

8/10/2008 9:19:30 PM

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"as opposed to just being you and having a good time. You don't need a title to do that... nor do you need to be in love. "

Shit, you don't even need a guy in order to be able to do that.

That's where the crazy is coming from: you don't recognize this, and you're unable or unwilling to give life a shot alone.

Of course, seeing as how I'm drawing all my conclusions from your posts on here, you'll probably disregard what I'm saying here.

Even though I used to be batshit crazy, too.

8/10/2008 9:19:49 PM

Maybe you should take a very long break from any attempts at relationships for a while.

You seem to be bringing a spectacular amount of failure to every attempt.

Or you could just relax on the relationship front, and let some of the crazy GTFO.

I am going to speak for Michael here and tell you that you should definitely keep fucking him, regardless of what you decide to do about the relationship

8/10/2008 9:20:08 PM

bros before hoes. i don't even know the dude but I just felt it was the right thing to do

8/10/2008 9:20:11 PM

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"bros before hoes. i don't even know the dude but I just felt it was the right thing to do"

IMO she'd be more trouble than she was worth as a FWB.

her: So we've been screwing for 3 weeks now. Will you reconsider "us"
him: my penis, your vagina. That is all there is to us

she runs away crying to post on myspace

8/10/2008 9:34:09 PM

Don't blog about relationships. Nobody cares and it freaks guys out.

8/10/2008 9:35:09 PM

^^ that's pretty much what i've thought about the whole thing.

[Edited on August 10, 2008 at 9:35 PM. Reason : people can smell crazy a mile away.]

8/10/2008 9:35:15 PM

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"IMO she'd be more trouble than she was worth as a FWB."

I'm inclined to agree.

8/10/2008 9:35:56 PM

haha at lewoods last post

[Edited on August 10, 2008 at 9:36 PM. Reason : fucking fast posters]

8/10/2008 9:35:56 PM

yeah, lewoods hit that shit on the motherfuckin' head

8/10/2008 9:37:49 PM

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"so I write about it on myspace."

[no]

8/10/2008 9:39:00 PM

i give lewoods a lot of shit.


but she seems like my type of girl.

8/10/2008 9:39:34 PM

Everyone gives me a lot of shit, I'm used to it. Damn this thread reminds me I forgot to post about the free condoms.

8/10/2008 9:49:00 PM

people still use condoms?

8/10/2008 9:49:33 PM

Your mom does

8/10/2008 9:50:59 PM

Dunno, they seem like a good idea for preventing the STD shit and all.

8/10/2008 9:51:07 PM

This bitch sounds crazy

8/10/2008 9:51:26 PM

damn i hope i have good enough taste to not have sex with a broad with an std

8/10/2008 9:51:44 PM