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3/23/2010 4:50:47 PM

no one read my post, but fuck it

3/23/2010 4:51:28 PM

To echo BD's sentiment: my 'ex' and I will have been married for a year on 4/25. No, that's not the longevity of 5 years, but w/e. Marriage isn't given to be a 'happy ending' anyways (in more ways than one )

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"too much to ask for an STD test? been cheated on before, hard to 100% trust atm "

Hell, you should do that at the start of any sexual relationship.
If this bothers her, that's a major red flag. Being bothered about someone requesting an STD test says you're either dumb, crazy thin-skinned, or not mature enough to be banging.

[Edited on March 23, 2010 at 5:03 PM. Reason : sdf]

3/23/2010 5:03:02 PM

Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. I know several ppl who are currently married that had broken up w/ each other while dating and gotten back together. I assume most of us on here are young so many relationships end b/c of distances, being at different schools, moving b/c of jobs, not being ready for serious relationships etc... I'm currently seeing a girl that I dated almost 5 years ago. Back then we lived 2 hrs apart and were young and retarded. Now we live near each other and have both matured. I think that shit happens for a reason and people don't just randomly fall back in your life. If you don't at least give it a try you will always wonder what may have happened.

--- Also, if you've already hit it once, it's waaaay easier to get it the second time around

3/23/2010 5:38:01 PM

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"i think the rule should be "it didn't work out the first time, it's not going to work out the second time," but i suppose there are always exceptions"

3/23/2010 8:24:41 PM

^kind of a shitty rule then

3/23/2010 8:26:09 PM

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"Also, if you've already hit it once, it's waaaay easier to get it the second time around "

This is so true. I had multiple retreads over the years, and it's definitely a path of little resistance.

but that's a bit different than actually dating someone you've already dated. I only did that once, but it worked out for me.

3/23/2010 8:50:48 PM

Considering my past boyfriends, no way. No no no no way.

3/23/2010 8:59:16 PM