Yeah...I had to be careful working there or I would turn into a roly poly. Closest I've got to great bbq in SC. Chill place to work as well.
12/17/2011 2:33:33 PM
12/17/2011 2:35:15 PM
^He mentioned salaried service workers because that's what they do in Europe. It's why if you've been to the UK they REFUSE tips of any kind as a bartender or a waiter, because they're straight-up told not to take them. Tipping is just not part of their service culture.And I fucking agree with you on the service being better abroad. I spent a long time in Europe (mostly the UK) and just loved being able to 1) pay for my food up front, 2) not have to tip, 3) still receive good service. They get you drinks, they bring you your food, they don't nag the shit out of you and whine about how awful their job is.So whatever, sympathy for service industry, but don't be so damn smug about the "rules".
12/17/2011 2:40:12 PM
12/17/2011 2:42:32 PM
12/17/2011 2:43:41 PM
NM, waste of time.[Edited on December 17, 2011 at 2:45 PM. Reason : f]
12/17/2011 2:44:08 PM
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12/17/2011 2:55:13 PM
charleston's food is amazing
12/17/2011 3:02:25 PM
http://nymag.com/nymetro/news/bizfinance/finance/features/4086/
12/17/2011 3:04:16 PM
my statement still stands.[Edited on December 17, 2011 at 3:12 PM. Reason : seriously though, you're trying to use an article about NYC and their overinflated salaries in NC?]
12/17/2011 3:07:17 PM
i got choked out in my last fight.I still won.[Edited on December 17, 2011 at 3:10 PM. Reason : e]
12/17/2011 3:10:10 PM
You're definitely not going to be rich with a career as a bartender. And the ones that do make good money usually burn out in 10 years at the most.The good/responsible bartenders I knew in Charleston bartended for 7-10 years...made 60 to 80K a year...saved and invested it, and are now doing something different or they have their own restaurants/bars. But those people are few and far between.I did have a friend that was making 200k+ bartending in Vegas...but he was a big time gambler/drinker/partier...and left Vegas with maybe 5K to his name after 4 years. [Edited on December 17, 2011 at 3:13 PM. Reason : .]
12/17/2011 3:12:01 PM
bartending is like working the door is like waiting tablesyou advance to ownership, you dont stay there if you actually intend on making a living and accrueing wealth
12/17/2011 3:15:10 PM
12/17/2011 3:17:55 PM
ITT people who are not bartenders assume they are idiots and bartenders assume customers are idiots. /threadthe original post had some strange points, but where it was absolutely 100% right was where it commented on the micro-economy of the service industry. Money is just a borrowed form of currency. If your buddy drops big cash in your bar, it is almost understood that one day you will go to their bar and return the favor.
12/17/2011 3:25:27 PM
12/17/2011 4:08:20 PM
12/17/2011 5:43:06 PM
I had one of the worst nights at the bar that I have ever had. This group were complete assholes to the floor staff, the bartender (who is also one of my bosses) and me for over 5 hours, drinking and taking up the majority of my section at work. And when it came time to pay the bill they stiffed me on $150 tab. How in the hell do you see that as a viable option??/rant.
1/29/2012 3:32:26 AM
A little off topic...I've been working in a bar for a number of years. I've noticed that when we're slammin' busy, cash tips tend to be larger even though people are waiting longer. As opposed to when its slow and people can just walk up to the bar and be served immediately. I've always found this interesting...Does the value of the service go up when there's a legitimate wait... What say you bartenders?
1/29/2012 5:01:29 AM
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1/29/2012 9:13:29 AM
Sure did since every bartender reads this.
1/29/2012 9:21:42 AM
1/29/2012 9:24:50 AM
ITT: OP, an obvious "service industry" snob, doesn't understand service, and is currently jaded by customers that don't subscribe to an arbitrary system of politeness that someone else posted somewhere else. Did I miss anything?
1/29/2012 10:01:08 AM
1/29/2012 10:21:13 AM
1/29/2012 10:46:40 AM
You're a bartender. Shut the fuck up and get me my drink
1/29/2012 10:54:14 AM
I do it, but I've never really understood the purpose of tipping bartenders. To me as the customer standing at the bar, they have one purpose - get me my drink. I realize they have other things they are responsible for, but for me right there - get me my drink. That is their job. That is what they're paid for. I don't really see varying levels of service for bartenders - just getting me my drink. Just from a cost perspective, why tip someone several dollars for reaching down, opening, and handing me an overpriced beer. I just don't see my several dollars worth in that action.Maybe for the folks that ask for complicated drinks, but still - to me as the customer, the bartenders one function is to get me that drink. I don't tip my pharmacist for reaching behind the counter to hand me my medicine - why should a beer be any different?[Edited on January 29, 2012 at 11:03 AM. Reason : The argument then is "Don't go to bars to drink." And I usually don't.]
1/29/2012 11:01:41 AM
you are also paying the bartender for their competence in drink-making. Yeah, if they just reach down and hand you a bottle of cuuuurs laaaat, they didn't do that much. Then again, you're gonna pay out the ass for that bottle, too. Or, you ask them to pour you one. They can give you a shit-ton of head and no beer, or they can give you little head and lots of beer. Thus, the tip. Or, if you are asking for a mixed drink, you are paying extra for their knowledge of said drinks. The bar gets the money for the alcohol, the bartender gets the money for knowing what the fuck to do with the alcohol.
1/29/2012 4:23:20 PM
Anyone with an ounce of decency tips at the bar. Its the standard and the right thing to do.[Edited on January 30, 2012 at 4:01 AM. Reason : .]
1/30/2012 3:59:41 AM
There are some high horse motherfuckers in this thread. Good grief.
1/30/2012 4:44:55 AM
Normally I wouldn't post in a thread like this, because I really don't care all that much. Also, I haven't read past the first few posts, so I apologize if the conversation has drifted elsewhere.Let me preface by saying that I am unequivocally against rudeness of all forms towards those working in the service industry, at least without cause. I rarely (if ever) tip less than 20 percent, and am always gracious and polite toward anyone that is serving me. That being said, I sometimes wonder what makes bartenders think they are different from any other sector of the service industry where the customer comes first. What, do you think you are playing God back there, deciding who will and won't get drinks in a timely fashion? Example: I was at a bar downtown on New Years Eve, drinking merrily and having a good time with my compadres. I imagine that I had racked up somewhere near a $150 bar tab by this point in the evening. I decided to order 4 drinks for my friends and I and politely requested them from the bartender. There seemed to be a misunderstanding, as he thought I had ordered a drink that sounded similar to the drink that I in fact ordered, though it was actually a completely different drink. Upon receiving the drinks, I noticed that it was not at all what I ordered. Truth be told, I probably would have just sucked it up and drank them if they weren't completely disgusting. I told the bartender that these drinks are not what I had ordered. He immediately goyt defensive and told me that there was "nothing that he could do, he already made the drinks." Really, there is nothing you can do? Actually, there is something you can do. You can get off your fucking high horse and get me what I ordered. Since when is it OK for someone in the service industry to bring someone the wrong order and then essentially tell them to fuck off? Fuck you, Mr. Bartender. I am paying you, you condescending douchebag. I ended up getting into it pretty good with this guy before the manager came over and apologized (with the correct drinks in hand).I'm sure this isn't the particular situation the OP was originally talking about in this thread, and I'm sure customers are complete douchebags sometimes. However, I have noticed a strange propensity for bartenders and/or waiters/waitresses to put themselves up on some high horse, bitching and complaining about every little thing...shit's annoying.
1/30/2012 7:18:10 AM
^ Response:First...I'm not saying this is what happened in your situation. You probably ran into a bartender having a shitty night, you guys had a misunderstanding, and he was in the wrong. I'm on your side in this situation. He shouldn't have had that type of reaction, the manager came and corrected it, and hopefully he got disciplined accordingly.However, a lot of time this is how this situation usually plays out (how it has played out HUNDREDS OF TIMES in my experience)....- Intoxicated customer goes to bartender (in your situation you had $150 bar tab...I can imagine you had a few of those drinks) and orders drinks...maybe slurring some words, possibly not saying it loud enough...either way it can be a little distorted.[this is a step that is often skipped, but because this situations occurs so often, it's a step I never miss]- Bartender repeats the drink order he/she THINKS she hears. I've worked in bars with bands, DJs, and just overall loud-ass music playing with hundreds of people in there. My hearing has definitely suffered and you pretty much have to be a lip reader to be a decent bartender (and have a good memory of remembering drinks). But I've thought I heard "Miller Lite" a million times, repeated to the customer, yelling back to them, "MILLER LITE??"...come back with a Miller Lite, get a funny look, and they say, "I ordered Bud Light." You have people who order a Vodka and Tonic Water as a "Tonic and Vodka" or a "VT"....or a Vodka Soda as an "Absolut [insert type of Vodka here] and Seltzer". And these are just the basics. I don't have problems with those drinks...but it's just the tip of the iceberg in the 8 million different ways to order drinks in a bar (add wine options, drink menus with dozens of drinks, and then the customer's own personal drink menu in their brain with special shots and drinks they've gotten at other bars in their lifetime). So I always repeat the order, even if I'm 99% sure I got the order right. And this STILL doesn't always work. The customer usually isn't paying attention when you repeat the order back, and that's why they get the wrong order a lot of times.- Bartender goes and makes the drinks that he THOUGHT he heard- Bartender comes back with incorrect drinks, you say, "this is not what I ordered." I'm going to assume you replied in a polite manner, but I'd say 80% of the time it's a very condescending "this isn't what I ordered", while looking at the bartender like he/she is a complete idiot...all the while the customer is usually quite intoxicated probably the one acting like an idiot.- Now the bartender has to go back and make your correct drinks, probably go back and change your tab (which can take a long time depending on the POS system and whether or not he had closed out your tab, so he might have to re-open/close your tab again)...taking him further away from serving the other customers and getting further in the weeds. And then he might have to put the incorrect drinks on the spill tab...which in this economy, is sometimes heavily scrutinized by management.So I'm just giving you an example of what usually happens. I don't know many times I've repeated what I thought the order was, the customer gives the "okay", and then they get the wrong drinks. Its always nice when you put their drinks on the bar, they look at them, and then realize that (a) they should have been louder with their order and/or (b) they should have listened when the bartender attempted to "confirm" their drink order...then they apologize. But there are still the douchebags who act like elitist pricks when something is wrong with their order. Oh, and...
1/30/2012 7:37:09 AM
@rjrumfelThere's a lot of cleaning and other shit bar tenders do. Also they're not paid to get your drinks for you, they make less than $2/hr, that's what the tip pays for.
1/30/2012 7:43:18 AM
^^I realize the point you're trying to make, jbrick83, but hear me out - maybe I can offer some insight.I am in outside sales, which is currently salary+commission, but will move into straight commission starting at the beginning of July 2010. I have been in this position since July 2009. I have competition from several direct manufacturing sales reps, large distributors, and local distributors. Here are the advantages and disadvantages of each:Direct Advantages: Immediate knowledge of new technology, no middle man mark up, one shipping bill (paid by manufacturer or buyer of goods), access to larger range of non-commodity items, control inventory, have access to many distributors that can effectively sell their goods which increases market share, and set prices of commodity they manufacture.Direct disadvantages: Typically have 1-3 sales reps per region (i.e. southeast, mid-atlantic, northeast, etc.) limiting the number of accounts they can successfully manage/cold-call, lack physical customer service or physical technical service available to or affordable for smaller users or altogether, are sometimes not trustworthy because they will go in behind their distributors that sell their commodity to one account in large quantities (i.e. they missed a big account, and have found out about it through a distributor selling their particular product) which leads to the distributor not selling their product anymore, have too many distributors selling the product ultimately driving the set price down through deviations, possibly rely on distributors to actually sell the product, and competition from other direct sources.Large distributor advantages: have access to other commodities that go hand in hand with other manufacturers (poor example- grocery stores sell milk as well as cereal), get direct pricing, many locations regionally or nationally easing the shipping burden of buyers with multiple locations, personal service either customer or technical, many sales reps that are able to cover a broader territory, access to multiple manufacturers of the same commodity allowing to keep prices in check, service programs that smaller companies can't offer and direct providers can't match in price or value, and experts of many many commodities as opposed to one or a few.Large distributor disadvantages: smaller local distributors creating price wars (think Michael Scott Paper Co vs Dunder-Mifflin), direct mfg's going in behind and stealing business, limited access to all of the mfg's (you won't find Harris Teeter name brands in Food Lion and visa versa), can't truly set prices because it's based on both supply and demand, territory management, and tough growth prospects in slower economies (this is true for direct as well really)Local distributor advantages: Typically a good ol' boy setting where the seller and the buyer know each other for years (this does happen at all levels, but mostly at the local level), local folks are right down the street and can be used in emergencies, if the local guy buys at high enough volumes then there is no shipping charge to the end user, and access to both direct mfg's and large distributors.Local distributor disadvantages: easily beaten in price, array of commodities, array of technology, lack of trained staff, low cash flow, etc etc etc.This is what I have noticed in my six months, I am sure there are plenty more that need mentioning. The way I am setting myself apart as a sales person is this: I go after the big accounts right now while I am new. The big accounts, if I land them, will take care of me while I am new and building a customer base. The money made off of those allows me to focus free time on smaller accounts that get me higher margins. I build up big accounts, I would like to have 5-10 of these, then get 20-30 medium accounts. If I lose 1 or 2 big accounts, the 20-30 medium accounts keep me afloat while I go after new big accounts. I don't really waste time on small accounts simply because they basically pay for breakfast or something really small.I will say this, if you can't get a big account in the first 6-8 months (assuming you have cash flow that you can ride this long) you could be in a world of trouble. If you can get one, it will really make going after the others a lot more enjoyable and less stressful. It's simply just very exhausting wasting any time on anything other than big accounts in the very beginning. You work just as hard on the medium sized accounts and see 1/3 to 1/36 of the money in my situation.If you have any other questions, you can PM me. I hope this helps in the slightest!
1/30/2012 7:47:04 AM
You gotta at least change the "inside sales" part.
1/30/2012 7:50:28 AM
One thing I want to know: How come there are never more than like 2 bartenders ever? Even if it's a holiday Saturday and the place is packed? Everyone has to wait 10 minutes and order with no questions or special requests. Then we need to tip heavily because the bartender graced us with his attention? Can't the bar just add another guy at $2/hour?
1/30/2012 10:01:40 AM
you people bitch a lot
1/30/2012 10:03:16 AM
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1/30/2012 10:24:06 AM
IMO there are larger problems at work here.There is no sign on the door that says how much the bartender gets paid per hour. You can argue the $2/hour until you're blue in the face, but no one posting in this thread knows what the distribution of bartender wages actually is. Aside from even that fact, a single institution doesn't have much leeway to change the system because paying them more won't change the perceived tip premium on the prices.SUMMARY: economics fails b/c people act out of obligation and have incomplete information.But to our larger problem, why the hell are all you idiots all crowding into the same bar at the same time in order to all get crappy service? If you can't move and have to push people to get to the exit you're not having a good time. And this problem isn't because they don't make the bars big enough, it's because it's fucking high-value real estate that has 3 big nights out of the entire week, sitting there useless for the majority of the 24/7 time that it continues to exist. There is a premium you pay to drink at high-demand times and you pay that premium in the form of shitty service, and the possible lack of discounts they would otherwise give on other nights of the week.SUMMARY: everyone piles downtown at the same time so of course it's a shitty pigsty.The role of the bartender, though, is particularly confusing. They have accepted a particularly high risk compensation package for work that is, naturally, loud and filled with dealing with drunk people. Does it take particular skill? Sure, absolutely, but it's not a transportable skill to other lines of work. Dealing with drunk people isn't the same as dealing with generally disabled people. Plus, it's hectic, you need to know a huge number of drink recipes, and you have to be okay with being a dick. I dunno, maybe some people will argue these are skills you need for any job, but there's obviously a more effective way of handing people alcohol, mixing and occasionally adding ice or an umbrella. I mean, you can stay home and get the same effect aside from being around other drunk people you don't know and might be afraid of. Wait, you can get that at home, but not in the same volume as you can downtown. I mean, if people could, plenty of profiteers would routinely re-purpose houses, random buildings, and empty fields in order to make money. They might even limit the alcohol selection to 1 or 5 things, which would not keep very many people from coming. Hell, maybe it'd even come with a ride home. The real crux of the issue is government's stick up their arse and our overbearing and arbitrary alcohol rules.SUMMARY: it's all the government's fault (as usual)
1/30/2012 9:14:32 PM
1/30/2012 9:18:52 PM
If a bartender expects me to give him a dollar for twisting off a PBR cap, he's going to be sorely disappointed.
1/30/2012 9:25:42 PM