I am not usually one for expressing my opinions on things like this, typically I just sit in the background or avoid it all together. But since I am getting close to the time in my life where I will be having children this now affects me. I believe in spanking, I feel it is a necessary and effective punishment. However, there is of course a limit. This guy took it too far. 1. he should have just left after the first few hits instead of coming back for more. 2. The wife should back up her husband and pose a united front, but she should not have gotten involved in the spanking. Especially not have both parents with a belt. 3. The wife and husband should have sat down after finding out about the downloading and discussed their next steps for punishment. This would have hopefully calmed them both down enough to inflict a more effective, less emotional punishment that would have actually taught a lesson. I agree that anyone over 10 should probably not be spanked because by then there are much more effective punishments. I got spanked several times but just with hands. I got the belt once, and believe me I deserved it! I walked around with one of the other neighborhood kids and we spray painted people's houses. I got probably 3 slaps with a belt on my bottom (I was probably 10) and my parents dragged me to every one of my neighbors and made me fess up to what I did and apologize in person. I was mortified and I learned my lesson. I think that was a fair punishment for me. But regardless, this guy took it too far.
11/2/2011 10:41:29 AM
11/2/2011 10:43:04 AM
I'm a believer in spanking, I have no problem with using a belt either. most of you fucknuts talking about how there was nothing wrong here don't actually have kids, so you don't know what the fuck you're talking about. Spanking is about punishment, not a manifestation of anger or scarring your kids for life with what's nothing more than parental bullying. This was completely wrong and went way beyond anything reasonable. Obviously 7 years later this girl still hasn't gotten over it. If you're doing it right, you only have to spank your kid a few times ever (ok, probably more for a boy), and the threat of it is enough to be a deterrent. And it's fucking worthless past a certain age, certainly not a good punishment for a teenager. [Edited on November 2, 2011 at 10:46 AM. Reason : .]
11/2/2011 10:45:50 AM
^ Pretty much spot on.
11/2/2011 11:00:35 AM
i don't believe in beating kids regularly, but a good, hard spanking for a kid every now and then shows them who's boss and that they really did something wrong.there's no question this guy went overboard, but people who equate parents who choose to spank with malicious child abusers are just asinine[Edited on November 2, 2011 at 11:34 AM. Reason : .]
11/2/2011 11:18:40 AM
11/2/2011 11:19:39 AM
Gamin on the internet? You better believe that's a paddlin
11/2/2011 11:21:39 AM
I agree with BobbyD, minus the belt part (but then again, I was threatened with belts and fish paddles by a terrifying man, so I obviously have a skewed view).I still can't believe how many people are joking about this. I say joking because I sincerely hope no one actually thinks this is right.
11/2/2011 12:07:32 PM
11/2/2011 12:10:06 PM
How come BobbyDigital and I are saying the exact same thing, but I'm getting argued with and he's getting unanimously agreed with?Side note, BobbyD, you and I pretty much seem to see almost everything the same way. It's kind of odd. Probably because we're so goddamn smart and awesome.
11/2/2011 12:33:55 PM
11/2/2011 12:36:29 PM
11/2/2011 12:38:07 PM
i swear this is like the 18th billion debate about spanking on here.
11/2/2011 12:44:24 PM
11/2/2011 12:45:04 PM
^^^ which is a stupid argument because it depends on the individual spanking and the individual getting spankedthere's too many variables, however i think its been pretty unanimous that spanking for spanking's sake doesn't make sense, it has to actually deter the behavior in the future otherwise it is just a physical beating[Edited on November 2, 2011 at 12:45 PM. Reason : f]
11/2/2011 12:45:22 PM
http://www.cnn.com/2011/11/02/justice/texas-video-beating/
11/2/2011 1:45:05 PM
jbrick83 is so upset right now IM SO MAD YOU DON'T SEE IT THE WAY I DO ARGGGH RED FACE [Edited on November 2, 2011 at 1:58 PM. Reason : .]
11/2/2011 1:56:52 PM
What would be funny is if this girl now found herself with an RIAA lawsuit in her lap
11/2/2011 1:57:15 PM
Pretty sure the statute of limitations has run on that.
11/2/2011 1:59:02 PM
Sounds like a job for Federal pound-you-in-the-ass Prison, or at the very least an old school get the posse and break his legs.
11/2/2011 2:05:05 PM
I've been spanked with a belt before. You don't need more than one or two hits to get the point across. That was a beating.Also, you're using a belt. You don't need to wind up like you're playing the hammer strength game at the fair.
11/2/2011 5:09:11 PM
This is some pussified shit. Ya'll need to come off it. I had way worse than this about 4-5 times a month. Of course, I did fuck up the way my parents said I did, so I had it coming. Weak minded fuckers up in here.
11/2/2011 5:20:02 PM
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11/2/2011 5:27:58 PM
^^ the weak mind resorts to using strong-arm tactics, a stronger mind would find another way raise and discipline their children
11/2/2011 5:43:08 PM
11/2/2011 6:21:33 PM
^^^I noticed that, too. AHA^Yo tambien.
11/2/2011 10:15:33 PM
While I agree that the judge was an asshole in this situation, I find it that this girl is trying to justify illegally downloading stuff onto her computer as if it's no big deal.
11/2/2011 11:25:28 PM
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11/3/2011 6:53:26 AM
11/3/2011 7:21:07 AM
Like a lot of people here, I was spanked by hand and even with a switch (incredibly painful) as a child. While spanking, especially with an item such as a belt of switch, is a harsh form of punishment, it is only punishment and not abuse. For me, the situation becomes abuse when someone uses an instrument- this includes hands- that are intended to bruise and injure someone. As someone who has been spanked, you know you're in trouble and avoiding the punishment only makes it worse The girl in the video intentionally tried to be difficult, rather than accept the consequences of her actions, and that made the entire situation appear worse. It was pageantry, nothing more. Furthermore, what she was doing was illegal and her father is a judge. I can't imagine that is the first time that is the first time she was asked not to do what she was doing. One final note, WHO CARES IF SHE HAS CEREBRAL PALSY? It isn't as if that difference makes her incapable of understanding her actions nor does it mean she is incapable of being a spoiled brat.
11/3/2011 8:36:16 AM
ITT, I learn which TWWers will not be babysitting my children.
11/3/2011 8:43:06 AM
I got beat with belts, switches and spatulas growing up. this is in no way acceptable, not because of the belt but because of the way it was carried out[Edited on November 3, 2011 at 8:50 AM. Reason : although, obviously spanking a 16 year old is fucking absurd]
11/3/2011 8:47:53 AM
I wonder what other video's she has. She sat on this one for a long time...there may be a worse one in her war chest. Word on the street is this guy not only hates computers...but particularly hates webcams and digital cameras now too.
11/3/2011 8:50:34 AM
I do find it kind of weird that people are equating cerebral palsy with something like autism or Down's Syndrome. I'm not sure this woman would agree that her physical handicap makes her mentally handicapped as well.
11/3/2011 9:06:30 AM
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11/3/2011 9:09:11 AM
11/3/2011 9:10:15 AM
I think it was back on page 2.
11/3/2011 9:13:18 AM
Still haven't seen autism or down's syndrome used...just the definition of certain types of CP:
11/3/2011 9:18:00 AM
ITT some posters reveal they were abused as children, and not only do they justify the abuse, but they also proclaim they will abuse their children in the future.If you need to abuse 'beat' your child with belts, spatulas, and switches, you are applying LARGE bandages -- the root cause is still there. If you raise your children lovingly in an involved family and spend time with them and teach them manners and decency by words AND BY EXAMPLE, you will [most probably] never have to 'beat' your children, and especially not with household objects (unless they were born deficient in some brain chemical/hormone and are more prone to be violent or disobedient or whatever... but if that's the case, you shouldn't be beating them in the first place).
11/3/2011 9:22:42 AM
All kids act up sometimes, no matter how you raise them. And some kids just don't respond as well to time outs, groundings, taking shit away, etc. I have a cousin that while she's fine most of the time, she can be a downright bitch when she gets it into her mind. I sometimes wonder if she had gotten a swat on the butt when she was being particularly horrid earlier in life would it have saved her parents from dealing with her ridiculous tantrums now that she's a teenager. Not saying kids deserve beatdowns, but a controlled spanking can have its time and place.
11/3/2011 9:26:09 AM
I was spanked with a belt as a child and all I can say is, it didn't make me change what I did, it just made me more afraid of my father. Because by the time he got the belt he was PISSED. I dont think that sort of punishment justifies what the child does. Maybe a butt slap to a toddler to grab their attention, but a full on beatdown does nothing good for a child imo
11/3/2011 9:27:45 AM
11/3/2011 9:32:12 AM
Relevanthttp://www.nytimes.com/2009/09/15/health/15mind.html?em
11/3/2011 9:33:22 AM
Consequences will never be the same.
11/3/2011 9:35:17 AM
jbrick83 is taking this personallyYou should go #Occupy Aransas
11/3/2011 9:36:03 AM
I'm actually not as up in arms as most people are in this thread. I was spanked with a belt as a child and had/have no problem with it. I won't spank my kid with a belt, but I have a feeling I will pop them in the heiney a few times when they start acting ridiculous.I was just calling out your idiocy.
11/3/2011 9:37:48 AM
Didn't Penn and Teller do an episode of Bullshit on positive reinforcement? I vaguely remember them going on a rant on how they give out awards for everything in schools these days.
11/3/2011 9:40:06 AM
^ Yes...kid's are coddled a little too much these days. But that's a whole different animal than this video.My kids are going to be raised as winners, and they'll have to work for it, because:
11/3/2011 9:42:32 AM
lol I was responding to 0EPII1's article but y'all replied faster than me and I'm too lazy to go back and add carats.
11/3/2011 9:43:33 AM
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