Because all of yall are just so chock full of good advice.

Here's the scenario: girl 1 owns a 2bed/2bath house (mortgage utilities etc come to about 1k/mo) and is renting out a room to girl 2 for $350 flat. Girl 1 starts to date a guy, and he comes over about every other day and spends the night on the weekend.
Girl 2 does not want him coming over that often because she doesn't feel she can be comfy in her pajamas and use the common area as much. Girl 1 feels that since it's her house and her large tv with tivo and computer hooked to it, she should be allowed to have her guy over when she wants.

So, what would be a reasonable compromise?

5/12/2008 4:41:27 PM

eviction

5/12/2008 4:42:18 PM

are you girl 1 or girl 2?

5/12/2008 4:42:51 PM

2 girls 1 cup?

Just go up to her and say "bitch please" (if you're girl 1)

It's your place!!!

[Edited on May 12, 2008 at 4:43 PM. Reason : 16000th post!!!!!!!!!1]

5/12/2008 4:43:25 PM

they should wrestle it out in a baby pool full of jello

5/12/2008 4:43:30 PM

I'm not going to say because I'm trying to remain impartial Tho I'm sure you'll figure it out and let everyone know.

edit: girl 1 needs a roommate to help offset costs, and girl 2 is a good friend and so far everything has been fine roommate-wise

[Edited on May 12, 2008 at 4:45 PM. Reason : sd]

5/12/2008 4:43:37 PM

350/1000? kick her the fuck out, get new roomate paying 400

5/12/2008 4:44:26 PM

eviction or girl 2 forks out another $150/mo and then bitches about the funny stains on the sofa

5/12/2008 4:44:35 PM

Girl 2 should stop being so shy. She shouldn't have gone into this without realizing that this could happen.

5/12/2008 4:44:58 PM

does the lease say anything about visitors?

5/12/2008 4:45:29 PM

well, you're girl 1 (by post history)

did you agree on any conditions when girl 2 moved in? that would definitely put things in favor

but, since you are paying the majority of the bills, and are respecting girl 2's privacy, she really doesn't have much room to complain

5/12/2008 4:45:46 PM

Tell girl #2 politely that if she feels uncomfortable, then she may need to start looking for another place to live.

Let her out of any long term lease if applicable.

Find a new roommate that doesn't care.

Profit?

5/12/2008 4:45:57 PM

Quote :

"2 girls 1 cup?"

~E won
hands down

[Edited on May 12, 2008 at 4:46 PM. Reason : tell her to put on some damn clothes and shut the fuck up]

[Edited on May 12, 2008 at 4:47 PM. Reason : i mean, its PJs....are you guys still 12 years old or something]

5/12/2008 4:46:19 PM

girl 2 is very body shy

girl 1 is doing girl 2 a favor with the low rent cost because she's a good friend. finding a new roommate is an option, but it's hard finding a decent roommate.

5/12/2008 4:49:19 PM

find a guy for girl 2 to fool around with.

problem solved.

5/12/2008 4:50:48 PM

hook girl 2 up with me

then she won't feel as weird having a guy over

[Edited on May 12, 2008 at 4:51 PM. Reason : ^exactly (within milliseconds )]

5/12/2008 4:50:48 PM

can i get girl 2's number?

if not, we need pics of both girls in order to see what is most fair

5/12/2008 4:51:51 PM

^, ^^ lol

5/12/2008 4:52:26 PM

she's looking... right now the guy she's talking to is in va

5/12/2008 4:52:42 PM

Well, then girl #2 needs to get over it or find another place.

This isn't a dorm room or something where everyone has equal footing. You own the house and can do whatever you damn well please. If she is a good friend, then of course you will be respectful, but nothing you have said so far is rude or disrespectful.

5/12/2008 4:53:20 PM

Awww I won a thread!!!

~E (for the old schoolers )

[Edited on May 12, 2008 at 4:55 PM. Reason : booo]

5/12/2008 4:53:33 PM

Quote :

"girl 2 is very body shy"

I think we know what this means

best of luck to you fellas

5/12/2008 4:54:14 PM

you need to get girl 2 and guy to hang out a few times (with you there of course) outside of the house. That way she can get to know him better, become more social around him, and hopefully learn he's not a creepball and is ok to be around. This should transfer to the housing arrangement if they get along

5/12/2008 4:54:27 PM

Quote :

"girl 2 is very body shy girl 1 is doing girl 2 a favor with the low rent cost because she's a good friend. finding a new roommate is an option, but it's hard finding a decent roommate. "

5/12/2008 4:55:31 PM

Girl 2 is also rather antisocial... the events girl 1 invited girl 2 to were turned down.

5/12/2008 4:56:43 PM

Quote :

"girl 2 is very body shy""

Quote :

"ell her to put on some damn clothes and shut the fuck up"

5/12/2008 4:56:43 PM

^^^ girl 1's boyfriend should move in permanently if this is the case- unless bassjunkie is right...

5/12/2008 4:57:19 PM

if shes so body shy then tell her to go the damn gym

5/12/2008 4:57:37 PM

lets drop this girl 1 girl 2 bs and start referring to them as their phone numbers.

5/12/2008 4:59:35 PM

when we say PJs, we're talking full length pants and sleeves, yes?

if she's still bothered, then she's beyond body shy, especially when the dude only gives a fuck about the other girl

tell her to loosen up or move out

5/12/2008 5:00:26 PM

ok then people, is there a polite or nice way for girl 1 to tell girl 2 to get over it?

5/12/2008 5:00:30 PM

it is no one's business who you fuck and when, especially if it's the same person everytime...moreso because it's not #2's place to start with - to expect the landlord to throttle back their social life so #2 can be lazy and not dress normal is bullshit. explain and if #2 can't handle it evict as advised above.bros before hoes actually applies here lol

5/12/2008 5:00:30 PM

if you need a new roommate...


just sayin

5/12/2008 5:01:32 PM

what? that you would do the same thing(try and stop #1 from fucking whomever she chooses)in the privacy of her own home?

5/12/2008 5:02:19 PM

I think #2 is less concerned about what goes on in the bedroom and more concerned about who gets living room rights

5/12/2008 5:04:57 PM

It's pretty easy to say "look, I understand you are uncomfortable with him around, but he is my boyfriend and I have no intentions of slowing down our relationship. If that makes it too uncomfortable for you to be able to relax and live here, then I will certainly miss you, but I understand."

Just make it sound like it's her choice-- which it is.

5/12/2008 5:04:59 PM

send her this thread

5/12/2008 5:05:35 PM

and my number

5/12/2008 5:05:58 PM

Quote :

"they should wrestle it out in a baby pool full of jello"

thread winning post

5/12/2008 5:06:07 PM

remove the living room from the acceptable 'common areas' and see how long she bitches about you having company over.

5/12/2008 5:06:31 PM

3-some with pics and video posted on tdub is the only solution.

5/12/2008 5:09:49 PM

tell her that unless she wants to pay for equal rights then she should just stay in her room

5/12/2008 5:13:25 PM

that's what i just said

5/12/2008 5:13:48 PM

girl 2 is obviously an idiot

just email her this thread

5/12/2008 5:15:22 PM

tdub can better answer this question if you posts pics of girl 1 & girl 2

5/12/2008 5:27:15 PM

ok total fail. i thought there were sexual activities in the living room that were making her feel uncomfortable. However, if she is being such a selfish bitch that she can't share the living room with two other people, then you just need to kick her the fuck out.

5/12/2008 5:32:17 PM

Quote :

"Girl 1 starts to date a guy, and he comes over about every other day and spends the night on the weekend."

Just starting to date a guy, and he already spends the night on weekends, and makes 3-4 days of appearances?

You are either the coolest girl on earth, or maybe need to be a little more indiscriminate. I haven't decided.

5/12/2008 5:49:15 PM

^ Or maybe you're snippy and judgmental.

5/12/2008 5:50:33 PM

^^ funny how nobody caught that til just now...

[Edited on May 12, 2008 at 5:51 PM. Reason : ^]

5/12/2008 5:50:49 PM

Girl 2 should not worry about being in her PJ's around Girl 1's boyfriend... she shouldn't be trying to impress him anyway.

5/12/2008 5:50:52 PM