A few nights ago my roommate and I drove down to harris teeter, I was expecting to get some grocery shopping done while she told me she wanted to see someone who worked there. So we get there and after pillaging the free cookie bin we went our separate ways. We met back up when I was checking out and she was standing in one of the aisles with two guys. Then one of the guys strolls up and asks me for my number. I never know what to do when this happens so I ended up giving it to him, not knowing this was the guy she was trying to impress. Admittedly I'm pretty retarded, but I was also operating on about 4 hours of sleep within the past two days. She walks out of the store, and I don't realize she's upset until she refuses to talk to me in the car. We drove home in silence and she hasn't spoken to me since. Also she has a boyfriend.

I think she's getting ready to uninvite me to her birthday party next week, like we're in 4th grade.

Discuss.

9/18/2009 12:31:49 AM

there is only one acceptable solution to this problem

9/18/2009 12:32:29 AM

the goo doctor.

9/18/2009 12:33:17 AM

Quote :

"she has a boyfriend"

9/18/2009 12:33:56 AM

SOUTH BY SOUTHWEST

[Edited on September 18, 2009 at 12:35 AM. Reason : also it wasn't officially 4th grade until you made a thread about it]

9/18/2009 12:34:31 AM

are you hot ?

9/18/2009 12:34:37 AM

obviously you were getting his number to invite him to her birthday party. which you should do. then update.

9/18/2009 12:35:01 AM

I was sure I was the opposite of attractive at the time. I was wearing sweats, and looked gross after being in the library for several hours, AFTER hitting the gym before that.

Before we left I told her that I would make her look better because of how gross I was. Now I feel like a total jackass for saying it.

9/18/2009 12:37:57 AM

are you a goo doctor or a good octor?

9/18/2009 12:39:12 AM

^^ why do girls think that once they put on sweat pants they automatically look horrible.. usually it is a case by case basis on how they look in sweats..

[Edited on September 18, 2009 at 12:44 AM. Reason : V and that is the best advice in this thread.]

9/18/2009 12:41:50 AM

Quote :

"obviously you were getting his number to invite him to her birthday party. which you should do. then update."

9/18/2009 12:42:35 AM

useless without pics

9/18/2009 12:44:05 AM

post pics and we will discuss

9/18/2009 12:44:40 AM

I was wearing a sweatshirt to hide the fact that my shirt was soaked through in a few places

I don't think sweats are necessarily unattractive by themselves but when you're actually sweating, then yeah

9/18/2009 12:46:10 AM

Hot girls are hot regardless of what they're wearing.

9/18/2009 12:50:26 AM

is she hot?

9/18/2009 12:50:44 AM

make things more complicated by you being mad at her for not cock blocking the ugly guy that was hitting on you.

9/18/2009 12:51:23 AM

http://s25.photobucket.com/albums/c82/thegoodoctor13/

9/18/2009 12:52:06 AM

i, like many guys, are oddly attracted to the post-gym look

9/18/2009 12:52:41 AM

tell her to stop being such a freaking girl and that you didn't know he was the guy she was after.

9/18/2009 12:53:39 AM

simple:

sleep with him in her bed when you know she will be getting home. when she gets home, invite her to join in, then, call her bf and invite him to join in.


Win!

9/18/2009 12:54:12 AM

Win for who? That would make those guys gay.

9/18/2009 12:55:20 AM

Hotness is like magnetic north. If it's not established, the moral compass is ineffective.

9/18/2009 12:57:38 AM

^^^ Genius!

^^^^ I would tell her to stop being such a girl if she would come out of her room and talk to me. I'm not at home right now because I can't stand that girl drama bullshit.

Also she knows I don't really date, so I don't see the issue here.

[Edited on September 18, 2009 at 12:58 AM. Reason : slow fail]

9/18/2009 12:57:38 AM

it's only gay if the balls touch, mmmk

9/18/2009 12:57:51 AM

goodoctor must be hot if this guy asked for her number

9/18/2009 1:00:53 AM

I'm not I swear!

9/18/2009 1:06:05 AM

ok. I take it back.

9/18/2009 1:07:53 AM

Good. You see, I must defend my honor

9/18/2009 1:11:24 AM

i think your hotter than your roommate, but she thinks she's hotter than you because she has a bf.

this whole ordeal kinda burst that bubble for her.

9/18/2009 1:12:57 AM

Quote :

"like we're in 4th grade"

THERE'S your problem.

9/18/2009 1:34:49 AM

I don't see a problem here.

9/18/2009 1:50:21 AM

9/18/2009 1:53:01 AM

Quote :

"I don't see a problem here."

The problem is that now I feel awkward in my own apartment. Not ok.

9/18/2009 1:56:45 AM

Jesus Christ when did college turn into high school part deux?

9/18/2009 1:58:06 AM

the aforementioned 4way is the only acceptable option

9/18/2009 2:00:01 AM

Jesus Christ when did college turn into high schoolmiddle school part deux?

9/18/2009 2:00:17 AM

srsly

how old is this chick?

9/18/2009 2:00:51 AM

You're just as much a part of making it into bullshit drama. If you didn't want to deal with bullshit, you'd be upfront about it

9/18/2009 2:01:26 AM

I already told her I didn't realize what was going on until after the fact. I'm just not into waiting around, secretly hoping she'll forgive me.

9/18/2009 2:09:28 AM

must be something in the water in the cleveland area. i'm very similar.

9/18/2009 2:10:50 AM

Do you also fight with roommates over men you don't want?

9/18/2009 2:14:05 AM

I'm guessing you didn't tell her she was being an unreasonable bitch as well.

9/18/2009 2:15:06 AM

based on your posts in this thread, I can tell that you are much hotter than she is

9/18/2009 2:15:59 AM

No, I'm too chicken to go that far. I'm hoping ranting about it on the interwebs will make me feel slightly better.

So far so good.

9/18/2009 2:17:22 AM

It's always easier to pick the lower hanging fruit.

9/18/2009 2:18:54 AM

is that why i always sit on my left nut?

9/18/2009 2:20:46 AM

Girls like this make everything difficult with this kind of drama.

Makes everyday life like shoving a wet noodle up a monkey's ass.

9/18/2009 2:22:10 AM

^^^ No need to pick on my stature

[Edited on September 18, 2009 at 2:23 AM. Reason : .]

9/18/2009 2:23:12 AM

haha i was confused for a second

9/18/2009 2:24:18 AM