So you have two options:

Be hornier but less emotional/moody but also gain weight

or

Be less horny but moodier and losing weight.


Your situation is that you're really busy and really don't have time for anything except work. If you're hornier, though, you spend alot of time looking for sex. If you're moodier, you spend alot of time trying to find a date or obsessing over the person you're dating.

Thanks in advance to those people who give real input.

A big go fuck yourself in advance to all the trolls who will post in this thread.

9/23/2009 6:22:37 PM

this isnt really a question for guys

9/23/2009 6:26:16 PM

fuck you, first of all, and the first one is ok because i can fuck me as good as anyone but i must say my fist hasn't bought my dinner in a damn long time

9/23/2009 6:26:32 PM

You present a false dichotomy.

Be hornier but less emotional/moody and exercise a lot to counter-balance and stay the same weight.

9/23/2009 6:26:33 PM

I don't get the dilemma. Working out tends to improve self-image, increase sexual appetite, and settle your emotions.

9/23/2009 6:27:14 PM

you must be captain of the food police and you'll be the first against the wall

[Edited on September 23, 2009 at 6:28 PM. Reason : one FMJ of 5.56 is enough for 3 food cops]

9/23/2009 6:28:10 PM

wat?

9/23/2009 6:28:32 PM

is this about anti-depressants?

9/23/2009 6:30:03 PM

Thyroid medication if I had to guess, to regulate hormones and cycles.

9/23/2009 6:30:48 PM

no, it's about the PILL. birth control.

When I'm on it, outside of a couple days before my period, I'm happy being single, but horny as all getout. But I've also gained like 9lbs in the past 5 months.

Now I'm back on it and its pleasant to not want to jump every hot guy I see, but the first guy I have sex with I get all moody over, and I'm stressing over already.

9/23/2009 6:55:08 PM

Have you considered trying a different kind? Most people react differently to different types of birth control.

9/23/2009 6:57:07 PM

Quote :

"When I'm on it... I've also gained like 9lbs in the past 5 months."

Unless the pill fucks up your leg muscles, it ain't going to stop you from running your ass around the block a few times.

9/23/2009 7:00:15 PM

I'll take a drop in horniness and a gain in moodiness and loss in weight.

My sexual appetite is pretty off the chain now, so I figure if I cut it in half, I'd actually be less moody because of that, so the increase in moodiness would just put me back where I was.

I'd love for my sexual appetite to be diminished somewhat.

9/23/2009 7:01:47 PM

you should go on my pill. i don't get periods anymore. its like the best thing to ever happen in my life.

9/23/2009 7:04:52 PM

I'm not trolling

but you make entirely too many sex-related threads

do you need to get laid or something?

9/23/2009 7:07:09 PM

Quote :

"you make entirely too many sex-related threads"

That's all anyone really talks about in chit chat son.

9/23/2009 7:09:19 PM

well yeah

if females are involved

but most of the time females aren't involved amirite

9/23/2009 7:09:48 PM

Most of the time females are involved in the conversation from what I can tell.

9/23/2009 7:12:54 PM

i would choose you horny with my number

9/23/2009 7:13:01 PM

Someone start a coalition to get T-Dub chicks laid.

9/23/2009 7:13:08 PM

I DON'T NEED YOUR HELP

9/23/2009 7:13:23 PM

No female on tww needs help getting laid son.

9/23/2009 7:13:50 PM

^

9/23/2009 7:14:33 PM

oh yeah, and the BC helps w/ acne.

so to sum up
without BC, I'm horny but ugly,
with bc, I'm hotter, but needy and drive guys away.

[Edited on September 23, 2009 at 7:20 PM. Reason : df]

9/23/2009 7:20:04 PM

who said you were ugly?

9/23/2009 7:20:37 PM

unhelpful people.

9/23/2009 8:19:44 PM

I guess it also comes down to whether you want to deal with your period every month. That's usually enough to warrant the BC.

9/23/2009 8:21:37 PM

BTTT

Still trying to figure this out.

I'm so needier when I'm on BC. When I wasn't on it, I was totally happy being single (except for a couple days before my period). WTF?

10/9/2009 2:07:58 PM

take the BC, i'll do you

10/9/2009 2:08:50 PM

^^ Also, birth control makes you attracted to guys you wouldn't normally be attracted to. Which makes my first relationship a total sham.

10/9/2009 2:09:58 PM

i told you i would give you dick

no strings attached


.... clearly you havent thought this out through

10/9/2009 2:10:16 PM

I would like to see supply and demand curves for sylvershadow and dick.

10/9/2009 2:13:23 PM

make your own decision

10/9/2009 2:28:29 PM

thin wins, always

10/9/2009 2:29:31 PM

Quote :

"this isnt really a question for guys"

the first, find said 'date' and exert said horny-ness in a safe manner

i suppose for a female the weight gain could be an issue, it would depend on how much it is expected to be and the effect of efforts (the increased amount of sex or working out for instance) to reduce or eliminate this issue.

ahhh further reading has unveiled other issues. i would say it depends, i assume you have tried both. pick the one that makes you the happiest.

[Edited on October 9, 2009 at 2:33 PM. Reason : carry on]

10/9/2009 2:31:49 PM

When I went on Nuvaring, my sex drive went up AND I lost 15 pounds immediately. Win-win!

Sexercise will prevent the weight gain.

[Edited on October 9, 2009 at 2:33 PM. Reason : .]

10/9/2009 2:32:05 PM

well there you go

10/9/2009 2:33:40 PM

oh hai nuvaring

10/9/2009 2:36:04 PM

Quote :

"Sexercise"

Really?

10/9/2009 2:40:23 PM

Sex burns calories.

10/9/2009 2:47:36 PM

good sex

10/9/2009 2:48:54 PM

I'm well aware of the fat burning, muscle toning capabilities of sex. I just expected better wordplay from you, lucyinthesky, or at least laying off the low-level portmanteaus.

10/9/2009 2:49:05 PM

Lucy, we should test your theory, I have some doubts.

10/9/2009 2:49:44 PM

I tried nuvaring a few years ago and it pretty much made me crazy, if I remember right. I dunno, maybe I should try it again.

10/9/2009 2:52:18 PM

Fine.

An exercise regimen of pelvic thrusting and yoga poses (like downward doggystyle and plow pose) will keep your slim and trim.

No NuvaRing then. How about the Mirena?

[Edited on October 9, 2009 at 2:53 PM. Reason : .]

10/9/2009 2:52:23 PM

^ That is a 10/10 post right there, ma'am.

10/9/2009 2:52:50 PM

which pill is this?

10/9/2009 2:53:28 PM

Do you want the option to have kids in the future? I think there are options for permanently ending Aunt Flo, provided you have no desire to pee in the gene pool.

10/9/2009 2:55:30 PM

10/9/2009 2:55:34 PM

I think I tried mirena a long time ago as well... I think I got off it b/c I was spotting between periods, which is why I started on Nuvaring.

Right now I'm on yaz. I thought I liked it, but then went off it for a couple months and discovered how nice it was to not be on it ie more horny, less needy, which kinda equates to more confidence.


And no, I don't want kids, but options for that are all invasive and surgical and $$. Also, tie tubes mean still get periods, taking out ovaries means crazy hormones, no sex drive, hormone therapy, bone density loss, increased risk of heart attack/high blood pressure, etc. taking away uterus/ partial hysterectomy does alot of the same, I think but i'm not sure.

[Edited on October 9, 2009 at 3:04 PM. Reason : df]

10/9/2009 2:56:35 PM