they don't wanna talk about it do you
(1)instantly forget about it and move on to the next subject
or
(2)do you come up with some crazy reason why they don't wanna talk about it and believe that reason until you find out the true story?

10/20/2009 1:42:39 PM

hearing "i don't wanna talk about" makes me wonder why the hell they don't wanna talk about it and then i annoy the piss out of them until they finally spill

10/20/2009 1:43:21 PM

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10/20/2009 1:43:23 PM

i honor it


because i fuckin hate being asked repeated questions if i say i dont want to talk about it or "nah im good" when people keep askin me if im mad and shit i hate it


i give everyone else that same respect

i really really hate being asked over and over again "what are you thinking" or "are you mad, whats wrong" or "you wanna talk about it" thats when i shell up hard i dont like questions very well

[Edited on October 20, 2009 at 1:44 PM. Reason : d]

10/20/2009 1:43:46 PM

If its about me, I press on

If its not, I lose interest

10/20/2009 1:43:48 PM

I tend to badger the fuck out of them until they scream at me or finally tell me.

Of course, I'm wising up in my older age. Steph doesn't wanna talk about it, I'm learning to keep my trap shut and go elsewhere. Otherwise, all hell breaks loose.

10/20/2009 1:43:55 PM

I get drunk and mock them for not wanting to talk about it until it turns into an episode.

10/20/2009 1:43:57 PM

move on! they don't want to talk about it so its none of my business.

10/20/2009 1:44:13 PM

Well I don't bug people about it, but I do come up with some crazy idea in my head and I believe it until the subject comes up again. If it's someone I'm close with I normally tell them my crazy thought, but if I'm not close to them I don't want them to think I'm crazy.

10/20/2009 1:45:00 PM

Quote :

"If its about me, I press on If its not, I lose interest"

yeah i'm gonna add this to my post. if it's about me, i dig and dig til it's out. if it ain't about me and has nothing to do with me, then fuck it.

10/20/2009 1:45:10 PM

#2, but then eventually i talk myself into #1

10/20/2009 1:45:20 PM

Trust me. You're fucking batshit crazy. I should know. I'm a fucking loon myself.

10/20/2009 1:45:36 PM

i usually tell them good, i dont want to hear about it, which is generally the case, dont want to hear all you problems

10/20/2009 1:46:43 PM

Haha, well mostly recently a friend of mine was like "I wish I still had my truck" and I was like "Why don't you have it anymore" and he was like "I don't wanna talk about it"

Seeing how most of the time someone not having the same vehicle as before isn't that big of a deal I figure it's something HUGE that happened and I came up with this story (obviously not true, but funny in my head) He was having a love affair with his truck, but then one night his truck hooked up with someone else and he found out about it and his truck left him....

Later I found out his dad kept it in Mississippi when he moved here.

10/20/2009 1:47:58 PM

doesn't really matter to me. I don't want to hear it anyways

10/20/2009 1:48:39 PM

Keep dat shit to yo'seff, nikka. I don' need to know.

10/20/2009 1:49:34 PM

Quote :

"If its about me, I press on If its not, I lose interest"

10/20/2009 1:50:29 PM

Quote :

"#2, but then eventually i talk myself into #1"

This is especially the case after living with someone for 4 years who absolutely HATED to be asked "what's wrong" more than once.

10/20/2009 1:52:44 PM

used to be #2, now its #1

10/20/2009 1:54:06 PM

depends on who it is. if it's someone close to me i'll annoy the snot out of them, and/or cry until they tell me.

otherwise i dont care

10/20/2009 1:59:00 PM

I, too, will drop the issue if they dont want to talk about it.

10/20/2009 7:27:41 PM

it really depends on the person and how much i think i can get out of them and how interested i am in what they have to say

10/20/2009 8:04:59 PM

I tell them that I'm willing to listen if they decide to talk and then move on.


At least half the time they wind up spilling their guts.

[Edited on October 20, 2009 at 8:29 PM. Reason : grammar]

10/20/2009 8:28:43 PM

I drop the conversation but I don't instantly forget about it. The worst is when someone acts all befuddled, starts talking about their situation and then they say "I don't want to talk about it" but clearly they REALLY want to talk. ugh. I usually get angry at this form of attention whoring. But if I start the conversation, bring up the situation and they say they don't want to talk about it, I then stop talking and try to change the subject (if they still want to continue talking). Very hard thing to do.

I have to admit, it is the hardest for me to drop the conversation with Ken but I still do it. He usually says it when we have had a heated debate about something and I don't want to give in.

10/20/2009 8:57:07 PM

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10/20/2009 9:16:21 PM