Move to Padre Island Texas with my boyfriend because he's getting relocated.

Pros: Boyfriend is awesome, smokin' hot, super fun, and always exciting. I'm going to have a boat in a slip off the back porch, and all I can eat PB and Js.

Cons: Born in Raleigh, No clue for job, lots of blue collarism (I've heard), close to mexico (drug wars COULD be cool...?), boys don't generally love me forever...

Answers taken: "Good Idea" "Bad Idea" "GI" "BI"

I'm going to keep score. Thanks for your help.

4/9/2010 3:00:29 PM

you guys have only been dating like a month or two right?

BI

4/9/2010 3:06:01 PM

6 months.

But we're already farting in front of each other, so it's cool.

4/9/2010 3:09:41 PM

Born in Raleigh
parochial

No clue for job
useless

lots of blue collarism
elitist

close to mexico
racist

boys don't generally love me forever
unloveable














GOOD IDEA you moron

4/9/2010 3:09:41 PM

actually, as long as you have an auxiliary plan (as in if things go bad you can easily fly back here and crash at home) then why not? fuck it

however, i warn you, while i havent been to spi, pretty much everywhere else in texas suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuucks a fat one

[Edited on April 9, 2010 at 3:12 PM. Reason : .]

4/9/2010 3:09:46 PM

go for it and experience new things. you've been wanting to get out of raleigh for a while. if shit hits the fan you can always move back.

4/9/2010 3:14:30 PM

YEAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH!! FUCK IT!!!

4/9/2010 3:16:01 PM

did he actually ask you to move with him? after only 6 months of dating? he must be on his way to loving you forever. HOP ON THAT MONEY TRAIN AND RIDE IT TO TEXAS BABY.

4/9/2010 3:16:27 PM

I think everyone should move a good distance away from their hometown at least for a while. Do it.

4/9/2010 3:16:37 PM

Yeah, go for it. Take a chance, have some fun

4/9/2010 3:17:07 PM

you wont fix in texas! no land for hippies

4/9/2010 3:17:21 PM

http://www.youtube.com/user/LaurenBeClaireful

4/9/2010 3:17:33 PM

bad idea. Maybe you should try the long distance relationship thing. That would help you understand how much you care for him.

4/9/2010 3:18:39 PM

i stopped reading at the part about the boat

GOOD FUCKING IDEA

4/9/2010 3:19:37 PM

4/9/2010 3:19:37 PM

I lived in Fort Worth, TX for about 2 years before I got my present job. Texas was ok, if the right opportunity came up I would consider going back. I dont know if I would want to live near the border though...DJ, with your super model looks, you might get kidnapped.

[Edited on April 9, 2010 at 3:20 PM. Reason : w]

4/9/2010 3:20:31 PM

If you don't have a good job here, then fuck it why not.

Keep bj's in the regular regimen and while he might not love you forever, he'll at least keep you around for a few extra months. Maybe enough time to find a decent job

4/9/2010 3:20:40 PM

extends quadmire

4/9/2010 3:22:10 PM

Quote :

"I dont know if I would want to live near the border though...DJ, with your super model looks, you might get kidnapped."

the border of what? the ocean? i mean mexico is like 3 hours away from where you'll be.

the girl im dating is originally from corpus christi and she has nothing but bad things to say about it.

4/9/2010 3:23:23 PM

Quote :

"did he actually ask you to move with him? after only 6 months of dating? he must be on his way to loving you forever. HOP ON THAT MONEY TRAIN AND RIDE IT TO TEXAS BABY."

4/9/2010 3:35:18 PM

If you love him, do it. It sounds like you're at a point in your life where you can easily pick up and go. The adventure will be worth it, if nothing else.

Jobs come and go. Family has to love you. But a good man is hard to find.

[Edited on April 9, 2010 at 3:36 PM. Reason : .]

4/9/2010 3:36:18 PM

gi

4/9/2010 3:40:16 PM

good idea!

4/9/2010 3:43:12 PM

and the lord said DO IT!!!

4/9/2010 3:43:20 PM

Well, as long as you're in Raleigh people are going to think of you as that girl that went home with a random guy after an AC/DC concert.

4/9/2010 3:44:40 PM

Bad Idea

4/9/2010 4:29:39 PM

meh if you break up you can move back

a move isn't a forever thing

good idea

4/9/2010 4:33:24 PM

Why not? If you've never lived anywhere but Raleigh a change of scenery could be really good experience.

4/9/2010 5:57:42 PM

DOOOOO ITTTTTT

Quote :

"if shit hits the fan you can always move back."

4/9/2010 5:59:53 PM

seems like a good opportunity to live somewhere else for a little while...you arent bound here by anything and you can always come back if it doesnt work out.

GI

4/9/2010 6:13:14 PM

He's just moving there so he can bang an unlimited number of Spring Breakers. So many that he forgets your name, DJ Lisa.

4/9/2010 6:15:54 PM

Quote :

"Why not? If you've never lived anywhere but Raleigh a change of scenery could be really good experience."

do it.. you can always move if you don't like it

4/9/2010 7:52:38 PM

Quote :

"But we're already farting in front of each other, so it's cool."

well that answers that. you are made for each other. go for it.

4/9/2010 7:54:27 PM

I thought that was funny and summed it all up pretty well.

4/10/2010 10:23:46 AM

problem with corpus christi is that its like 3 hours away...from anywhere. not time for it.

Unless that boat also has wings, in which case go for it.

4/10/2010 10:27:49 AM

I don't think I would risk it without a marriage certificate. If he kicks you out you have no recourse without it. With it you bring back half his stuff as consolation prize.

4/10/2010 1:01:28 PM

No offense, but I thought you preferred carpets over hardwoods.

4/10/2010 2:10:30 PM

Awesome idea! Take some trips to Austin and San Antonio!

4/10/2010 2:15:11 PM

^^ I see what you did there... I think.

4/15/2010 10:29:21 AM

GI get the hell out of Raleigh while you still can.

4/15/2010 10:40:34 AM

bad idea, all of your pro's are fleeting

4/15/2010 10:43:07 AM

i say do it. if it doesn't work out, at least you took the chance to see what it was all about. if you don't go, you run the risk of always wondering, "i wonder what would have happened...."

4/15/2010 11:14:07 AM

I've been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months and would move to be close to him right now if I had to and could. But I wouldn't live with him. I'd find an apartment or something close by.

4/15/2010 11:16:25 AM