I had maybe two beers and couldn't really feel anything. She was intoxicated but not falling-down drunk. She could hold a conversation. We talked about 10 minutes total (it was loud, band was playing), a little bit about music and just general stuff ("where do you work" "where are you from" etc). I asked for the number before I left and got it. Now I'm wondering if I should call her (this was Sunday night).

I'm not sure how much she'll even remember of me. We had a conversation but she wasn't hardcore flirting with me or anything. I'm attracted to her (she looked pretty good) but meeting her in an intoxicated state at a bar makes me wary. Should I call?

5/18/2010 11:18:51 PM

she probably doesn't even remember you.

5/18/2010 11:19:28 PM

other option is to text her a pic of DeuceFest® and imagine the horror on her face

5/18/2010 11:20:06 PM

Just call her, the hell do you have to lose?

5/18/2010 11:23:36 PM

she probably won't answer anyway

i mean unless you exchanged numbers and she remembered. cause i don't answer numbers i don't know

and sometimes i try to give out a fake number (which usually just ends up being one of my friend's numbers that i have memorized)

whoops.

5/18/2010 11:24:50 PM

do it d00d!

5/18/2010 11:26:05 PM

If the number is (123) - 456 - 7890, then it's probably fake.

Or so I hear.

5/18/2010 11:27:42 PM

^^^I don't remember any of my friends' phone numbers even when I'm sober.

[Edited on May 18, 2010 at 11:28 PM. Reason : .]

5/18/2010 11:28:03 PM

^^ worst fake number ever

^ i remember really weird things. bank acct number, routing number, credit card numbers (don't give me your credit card even for a second cause i'll memorize it haha), phone numbers, etc. too bad i can't remember things i NEED or am SUPPOSED to remember



[Edited on May 18, 2010 at 11:29 PM. Reason : .]

5/18/2010 11:28:17 PM

is it 867-9309?

5/18/2010 11:28:42 PM

if i had a dollar for every time this situation got me some booty, i'd have $9

5/18/2010 11:29:26 PM

well here's what happened. I ask her for her number. She goes "here why don't you write yours down." (when I hear that I'm thinking she's blowing me off). So she rips her receipt in half and she's looking for a pen in her purse... but she was kind of struggling because of the intoxication. I was thinking "fuck this" and so I just say "tell me your number and I'll call it." So she tells me and I call it. Then I leave her at that point and go back to my friends who are just finishing their drinks. We leave a few minutes later.

5/18/2010 11:30:01 PM

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"is it 867-9309?"

fail

5/18/2010 11:30:42 PM

u should text her "bwn?"

5/18/2010 11:31:05 PM

^^ AHAHAHAHAHA.

[Edited on May 18, 2010 at 11:31 PM. Reason : .]

5/18/2010 11:31:05 PM

don't fucking talk while the band is playing

unless it's a cover band

5/18/2010 11:31:05 PM

or a really bad band that plays at napper tandys or 42nd street (which is MOST likely a cover band but not always)

[Edited on May 18, 2010 at 11:32 PM. Reason : .]

5/18/2010 11:32:27 PM

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"don't fucking talk while the band is playing unless it's a cover band"

it was a cover band. they were playing the venerable 90s jam "Semi Charmed Life" by Third Eye Blind, in a kind of acoustic unplugged style. We started talking about Third Eye Blind... turns out we have both seen them in concert, me back in highschool and her a couple months ago.

5/18/2010 11:32:59 PM

never mind. next time read the whole thread

[Edited on May 18, 2010 at 11:34 PM. Reason : .]

5/18/2010 11:33:44 PM

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"text her a pic of DeuceFest® "

5/18/2010 11:35:07 PM

it's a legit 919 number, most likely a Verizon cell just looking at the first 3 digits. that doesn't mean she'll answer though.

5/18/2010 11:35:22 PM

Still not really understanding the apprehension on the part of arghx. Yes the bands at Napper Tandys do suck ass

5/18/2010 11:36:21 PM

Just text her with "Hey Baby, When Are You Gonna Let Me Tap That?" and see what happens.

5/18/2010 11:36:39 PM

and post fail in the tap thread

5/18/2010 11:40:30 PM

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"Still not really understanding the apprehension on the part of arghx."

she's a school teacher. most of dem bitches is batshit crazy. bad past experiences

5/18/2010 11:40:34 PM

Alright then if you already made up your mind about the type of person she is then don't even waste your time calling her

5/18/2010 11:42:20 PM

well when you put it that way, maybe i should call

5/18/2010 11:44:47 PM

5/18/2010 11:48:08 PM

^

5/18/2010 11:51:51 PM

at least text her

5/19/2010 9:29:54 AM

i respect the fact that you are worried that she may not know who the fuck you are since she was drunk

but taking that into account you have two scenarios

1) She was drunk and doesn't remember you, making you a stranger, basically. Well awesome, no harm done there. Tell her it was nice to meet her and to have a good one.

2) She remembers you. You go hang out somewhere where you can have that conversation again, but sober this time. Then you get in her panties.

i see no potential for failure here.

5/19/2010 9:38:11 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2aN4w2AfkEY

5/19/2010 9:40:05 AM

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"If the number is (123) - 456 - 7890, then it's probably fake. Or so I hear."

Hey! That's my number!

5/19/2010 9:41:32 AM

That's the combination to my luggage!

5/19/2010 9:42:15 AM

She gave you her number. Call her. If she doesn't like you, it's her mistake for getting drunk and giving out her number. If you think she just wants to be friends, be real casual about it.

Whats the alternative? Not calling and not seeing her again?

5/19/2010 10:11:19 AM

Seriously you have nothing to lose here. If she doesn't remember you, oh well, you'll probably never see her again. If she does, then awesome, go for it. If she doesn't answer the phone just be like "Hey ______, this is arghx from whatever bar the other night. I just wanted to see if you wanna get together sometime for lunch or something. Gimme a call back, my number is xxx-xxx-xxxx." If she doesn't call you back then she probably doesn't remember you or care, so forget her and move on to the next.

5/19/2010 10:12:12 AM

what if it's her ugly friend's phone number?

5/19/2010 10:12:44 AM

this is what texting was made for

5/19/2010 10:29:35 AM

lunch = friendzone!

5/19/2010 10:39:34 AM

^No way, son, lunch or drinks is perfect for first dates with girls you've met once and barely know. If it's a girl you've known for a bit or had a class with all semester or something, that's when you take her out for a full fledged dinner/entertainment/deep dicking on the first date.

5/19/2010 10:42:42 AM

i would completely avoid it if i were you.

drunk on a sunday night? trust your instincts. that's a first class trip to crazy town.

5/19/2010 10:43:02 AM

^lol, I like chicks that don't mind going out and getting drunk on an off night. I don't understand the apprehension or reason for even making this thread. Call her up. If she doesn't remember no big deal. I've had a few girls that I've called up tell me that they were surprised that I remembered who THEY were, lol.


On a side note I'd like to mention that I swapped numbers 2 weeks ago with a cute girl in my neighborhood that I met while we were walking our dogs. We hung out at the dog park once and then I asked her about going out and we swapped numbers. I called her twice and that bitch never answered or returned my calls. Seems like a stupid move, given that she lives like 8 doors down from me. Cunt!

5/19/2010 10:58:09 AM

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"deep dicking on the first date"

5/19/2010 11:05:50 AM

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"first class trip to crazy town."

5/19/2010 11:06:07 AM

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"don't fucking talk while the band is playing unless it's a cover band"

or if they are terrible, which 9 times out of 10 they are

I'm AstralAdvent and i approved this message.

5/19/2010 11:07:06 AM

making out with drunk girls is awesome

5/19/2010 11:08:54 AM

drunk girls are probably my largest turn off right after insecurity

ride the crazy train if you want. i assure you its not worth it!

5/19/2010 11:20:25 AM

haha

i'll make out with them

but we ain't goin to the alter no time soon

5/19/2010 11:29:17 AM

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"drunk girls are probably my largest turn off right after insecurity"

Can't blame a woman for doing what I do myself; god knows I get lit

5/19/2010 11:32:14 AM

So you are turned on by an intoxicated woman?

5/19/2010 11:40:18 AM